How do you get your husband back after he cheated?

Answer 1

First off you have to ask yourself if he's worth having back! I have no idea what the problems were between the two of you, but obviously neither of you tried hard enough to work them out. Still, this is no reason for either partner to cheat because if one or the other or both is tired of the relationship then the option is to move on and cheating shouldn't even enter into it.

There isn't much you can do, but you should get on with your life as best you can. It's not as dismal as you think. More and more women are becoming independent and not always relying on men 100% and it's a wonderful feeling. Don't sit around and fret and worry over this guy because he may not be worth it. Don't take 100% of the blame for it either, because it takes two!

Hang in there and know that you are stronger than you think. Let things be, and if you two are meant to be together then you will be. Meanwhile, get out there and get living!

Good luck Marcy

ANSWER

Ms. Marcy is right, and I don't know the situation of your relationship with your husband. But I will tell you about mine, and I'm not sure if it will help you. Right now your heart is broken and you feel some revenge towards the other woman. But before you can really do this which I think if you do it will give you closure, but, I know there's a lot of BUT. Clear your mind and ask yourself who did it first, who started it first. If you can answer that you will open all the answer that you wanted to know.

Before your husband's affair, do the other woman exist in his life? Do they know each others for so many years or it just happen? It is not the other woman's fault why your husband had the affair. It wasn't the other woman who look for your husband or even search for him. She doesn't even know your husband then, so it can't be her fault.

If there's someone to blame it is your husband, not the other woman. Don't get me wrong it happens to me too. my husband fell in love with the other woman he met on a dating site. Ditto! right.. If you want you can hate the other woman, but blaming her will not solve what your husband did to you. The only thing that this other woman did wrong was she didn't say no to your husband. It was your husband who pursued her until she gave up. It was your husband who didn't stop. It was your husband that didn't take no for an answer...

Answer 2

I have to say don't wait for prince charming he might fall of his horse. Break some hearts but you will get your heart broken. You only live once so have the time of your life doing it. I have asked friends and all and no one can give me a straigh answer. HOW do you get over a guy? you cant but you can move on. If he already has another girl that means he has or might have given up on you and him, i know it hurts to think about it like that but theres no point lying to yourself.AnswerYou can't force someone to love you and if they left the relationship with you it was never meant to be because something that was meant to be would stay around. If you love that person then you love them enough to let them go and if it comes back it was meant to happen. AnswerI had the same mentality before; "if you love someone let them go and if they come back it was meant to be and they will be yours forever.."But now I have started to question this..What if the person you love thinks the same way, they love you too but they went with the same mentality.How would you guys ever get together than?I think one has to make a move..Sometimes you have to push your fate and work on it to find out. Go after it..But in a situation where the person you love is with another girl, you wait..You wait until they break up (they will) than you talk to this person. Be friend them..Everything will eventually evolve in one way or another..

i need help i cant find a way to get my before friend even though he cheated on me without tellin me i still love him and then my best friend stole him frim me im gonna hurt her should i or i shouldn't i?

I don't think you should hurt your best friend. But if she was really a best friend, she wouldn't of done that to you. This is the same situation Im having right now. And I just don't know what to do with it. But I do agree, how if it was meant to be, then you guys will end up together. Don't try to break your ex and his new girlfriend up. Because what if he finds out it was you who broke them up. he might get mad. If its meant to be, it will find a way to get there. Just wait a few weeks or so. Some ways to get over a guy... Just try not to think about him and you, and do as much as possible with you're friends. You're friends are the ones that can help you get through this relationship problem. Just do as much as possible when you can. That's a big way to help with the relationship problem. Just remember, If it was meant to be, you guys will work things out when it's time.

Answer 3

yopu kill the bi och... not! talk to him but make sure she is there to confront her! all serious ness now.. that biatch left a msg on my phone telling me to let him go and she suggests that i move on.. i was quite angry about it.. and was quite angry about the fact that he let her do it.. im still quite bitter about it

Answer 4

Well since he cheated he should either be trying to get you back or you shouldn't be with him at all. That is unless you have worked through it and are ready to move on. Honestly he should be crawling back to you because he messed up you did not. If he wasn't going to be completely faithful he shouldn't have gotten married in the first place.

Sorry if this seems a little harsh or not what you were looking for but i feel very strongly about this