How can you stop extramarital affairs?

Answer 1

• A person has to prove for sure that their spouse is actually having an extra marital affair and they can do this by catching them red handed; following them or hiring a detective. If the spouse who is cheating is a first time offender and asks to be forgiven then remember 'to err is human' (humans simply can make some bad mistakes) and try to resolve the marriage problems by seeing a marriage counsellor and learning good communication skills. If the spouse having the affair has done so before then divorce is the only answer.

Answer 2

Only you can decide what is best for you and how you want to deal with it. Confronting him would be the first step and from there you will have to decide whether you want to forgive him or not.

Answer 3

I'm sure a lot of people would like to know. I don't think you can stop an affair. You can do things in a marriage to try to prevent it from happening, but if a person is going to cheat then they're going to cheat regardless. Same goes for if an affair has already started. Only the cheater can decide if they're going to be faithful or not.

Answer 4

Depends on how strong you are. Many people would just choose to ignore it but then others would have their own affair to justify their partner having an affair. I personally don't believe that you can really ACCEPT an extramarital affair but you have just got to think that obviously if he/she cheated on you it was going to happen sooner or later so just cut your losses and figure out what to do from there.

You decide, is your life better with this person or without this person. Either way you do not have to accept being cheated on.

Answer 5

It is not easy. And most of the times, the extramarital will be known by everybody. Because living a double life is very difficult and stressful. You are better off braking off with your partner if you don't love her/him anymore. And be with the person with whom you have an extramarital affair.

ANSWER:

Wow, it will be a bit hard work and dangerous for you to do it. Just make sure that your wife will not find out if not, your body will be out in the street, agreed? If you want to mess up your life just to get a rush or feel excited, how about divorce your wife first so you wouldn't have issue to deal if she finds out. Take my words for it, I know because I'm one of them..

Answer 6

• If you are not sure your mate is having an adulterous affair then you need to get proof or you are only second guessing the situation. You can do this by either following them on the days you feel they have the freedom to see another person of the opposite sex or you can hire a detective to find out and it should not take any more than two weeks for the detective to give you proof. If you know for sure your mate is cheating and have proof then do not be afraid to use your inner strength by setting a time when you can be alone and confront them face to face and you do not have to be kind about it either, but just be blunt and to the point and let them know you have the proof. After this it is wise to think about what you want to do next. If the mate having the affair has not cheated before then realize humans makes mistakes and you may want to give them another chance, but if this has become a track record for them then you should walk out of their lives.

Answer 7

Touchy subject. See maybe friends or family member to help you guide through it. Online chat rooms may be to your benefit in the case which you can talk to total strangers and they may or may not listen and your identity is kept a secret.

Answer 8

Well even though you know everything and your husband thinks that you don't know anything the best thing to do is the confront him and tell him that he needs to be 100% honest with you and that most of the time relationships break because someone was not honest to his/her partner. That's all i gotta say and for you ladies i suggest you stay single until you know that the guy you have met is going to be there for you and will always love and cherrish you and most importantly he will never cheat on you.

Dr.Drew

Answer 9

I would ask him if he loves you. If no then I would leave him.

Answer 10

First talk to him. Tell him to change otherwise you call it quits.