You talk to them about it and try to talk him into doing something fun to get his son off his mind.
You'd be surprised what talking to your depressed son might do. Have a dinner together and talk about what is bother him. If that doesn't help, maybe some family therapy.
Bob and Beth Carson live in the big house with their teenage son and their daughter, Taliah who is about Mady and Cara's age.
Some of the facts about drinking can be a great way to help teach your teenage son. One fact could be that each year 8% of the visits to the ER are related to alcohol. Also that alcohol is one third of the reasons for drownings.
I wouldn't say he's really abusive. You'd have to ask Rowling that. I don't recall reading anything saying he was abusive to Draco. I doubt he was abusive to him. He spoiled Draco rotten and his son practically worships Lucius. Draco always talks about Lucius and wants to grow up like him. That doesn't sound like the son of an abusive parent. If he was, he'd either be really withdrawn or plain sadistic. Lucius had expectations for his son, and groomed him to be a proper young man. In a nutshell he was hard on him but he did spoil him. :)
no, he was married once and he have teenage son
* Your son has learned the abusive behavior from his father by watching and listening and seeing how your husband has treated you. Long ago you should have told your son that it is wrong to be verbally nasty or physically harmful towards a women. You did not give the age of your son and if he is a minor then you can seek help through counseling or Child Aid. If your son is no longer a minor then seek legal advice and have a restraining order put against him and if this doesn't work then have the strength to phone the police and have your son taken away in handcuffs and then press charges against him. As much as this will hurt you it may help to get your son the psychological help he needs so he doesn't continue to follow in the footsteps of his abusive father.
buy him some condoms!
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The best approach to teaching your teenage son about the effects of alcohol is definitely about the consequences. Drunk driving, impaired memory, these are all side-effects of drinking and your son should be well aware of these before reaching for a drink.
You should certainly be nervous if your son is the age of 12 and already drinking. From there, dangerous things can happen and they only go downhill. Please seek help for him!
If you want to be certain that a teenage son hears you, hug him and look into his eyes as you are speaking to him.
Hopefully the father isn't involved any longer (or at least not all the time) and you are separated and have custody or partial custody of your son. It's important that your son be taken to a child psychiatrist for help in this area. There are programs for the inner anger that your son must feel, and by nipping it in the bud now, your son should have a loving and good future. Not all children from abusive families end up abusive themselves, but they most definitely can have psychological problems from it. Good luck Marcy Therapy is a great way to get through to the 15 year old. Attend with him and allow him alone time with the therapist.