There is nothing you can do so stop feeling guilty because that is what is pushing you into this corner. You were honest and many of us lose feelings for a person we have dated and had to move on and the best thing you can do for this person is to move on. They will survive, but not if you keep interfering. Break-ups when one is still in love with the other is like a grieving process of someone you love that has died. It will take time to heal, but they will survive.
Yes, there are definitely people who can help you with your feelings. If you feel like you have no one to turn to and desperately need someone to talk to, there are many different phone numbers to call with people available 24 hours a day who can help.
try to get over her and go out with someone else
You can share feelings with someone but not give off feelings to someone.
When someone says, 'I'm over you', it means that they no longer have romantic feelings towards you.
You can't ! If you have feelings for someone then you cant do nothing about it. You love them and it's time you faced it!
Introduce them to your friends
Get back in the dating sceen and talk about the people you go out with as if they are great and there is potential. It will spark some feelings in this person. You will be in control which will help you cope better.
This is going to take some time. Eight years with someone is a long time to be with someone. You will have to find support from friends or family to help you get over this relationship. Try to find a counselor to talk about your feelings with. Remember to also give yourself time to heal.
you know when u no longer have feelings for him/her you know when you no longer care/have felings for him!
Ask him, if he does - get over it. Only one life.
Find someone better.
you can't ever truly get over a person that you have such strong feelings for. You can try as hard as you can, but it will not happen. You will just have to deal with your feelings for now kid until you find someone else that you can have the same feelings for(: yes you can get over it just forget about her your to good for her and what not lol just get over youselfe feelings dont need to interfere with ur life peace