How do you know if a your husband is in a serious affair?

Answer 1

Gosh I hope its not happening to you right now. But from my own experience you can tell if your husband or spouse is having an affair. Pay attention to his body language and then watch him when his home or the way his been acting. If he have a cell phone watch how he use it.

a- your spouse will keep his cell phone away from you. The statement will be

kept so you wouldn't see the calls that he made or the in coming call.

b - if your spouse never dress up when he goes to work and all of a sudden

he start making himself look good

c - your spouse will take a shower twice a day one in the morning and

when he gets home at night.

d - your spouse will smell different when he comes home. He will smell fresh

with the smell of different soap which is not what you are using.

e- he will have this different look in his eyes like he just won a price.

f - he will make a lot of excuse about working late or working early.

This are some of the sign which happened to me so I think it will be the same to most wife. But I hope he is not because the pain of betrayal will never go away.

Answer 2

I think men especially married men are different when it comes to showing their emotion or feelings. There are some married man when it comes to their feelings it will be obvious. If you have a problem with your husband and he is acting different around you, yes you deserve to know how and what to look for if he is having an affair.

From my own personal experience, the sign I had noticed but ignored it, was; his cell phone was never found laying around our house, he did hide it and never heard it ring. Funny joke here is I think the man I married sleep and showered with his cell phone the year he was having an affair. I've been married with him for 2 decade and never seen him take a shower twice a day. He only showered once a day. Most of the time since we got married the only time he will wear a man's cologne was if the two of us go out or when we still have a decent relationship. Before his affair, this man always concerned about getting enough sleep every night because he goes to work next day, but during his affair, his always stayed inside his office ( garage) working. I said working because he teaches part time at night, but it wasn't. he always talked to her on the phone, while she works at night, or at home. his calls with the record from his cell phone statement, he will be lucky if he can get some sleep 4-5 hours each night during week days.

He always visit her at her work place at night or to her home during on her days off. I think I can put this as serious affair when it comes to his affair. If you can pay attention to your husband, watch him, his action, the way he talk, and the way he act uneasy around you.......good luck!!