Ask the other woman if she says no then he is if she says yes then she is also. Why dont you just dump your husband and then you will know.
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!
Definitely yes
He probably does want to be with her..... but the wife (if she found out) uses her control over him to force him into not being with her. Sometimes it depends on how deep the affair with the mistress was.
ANSWER: You can't and you don't. It will be like putting a knife inside your own heart. Your position is a bit awkward right now and hard but I think your husband is the one that needs to solve this for everyone sake. One of you, maybe the woman he had an affair with is the one that needs to transfer. Talk to your husband and tell him how you feel. OR the best thing is talk to the Supervisor or Manager and tell them how uncomfortable it is working because the woman that help your husband ruin your life is always around where you work. This is all you can do.
The only reason your spouse would have to interact with the woman he had an affair with is if they are in a workplace environment and unfortunately, there is nothing much you can do about this, but to tell your husband if he slips one more time you are filing for divorce.
I do am sorry that you had found out your husband's secret. Emotional affair is the hardest affair that can happen to someone. I know because it happened to me, a while ago. If your husband admitted his relationship with ths other woman and they haven't met yet, you can still control your husband. The two of you needs to talk about what's going on with him. Ask him why he didn't have no problem talking to this woman on line about things in his life but he can't with you. Ask him how deep his involvement with her, but don't let him manipulate you, because he will tell you that " he didn't plan it" it just happen. Most married men who got caught with affairs, emotional or physical will say that " it's just happen." If your husband didn't plan it or even open up to her, he will not become emotionally involve with her. BTW the man that I married also told me that he didn't plan it, it just happen. Being emotionally involve with this woman, expect they already shared an intimate feelings to each others. What if, how it will feel, will be some of the intimate words that they talked or fantasized. When and if your husband stop talking to her, watch your husband, his behaviour will change because he will be thinking about the other woman. It just like trying to stop drinking, If you are planning to talk to her husband don't, it's the other woman that you need talk to, so she will know what ever your husband told her or even complain to her about you she will know the truth. If she don't listen to you, that's when you tell her that you will talk to her husband. But for now take care of yourself and make sure you talk to one of your friends or family.
If he prefers to date other guys.
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
just keep quite, but, if the truth doesn't come out in 4 weeks after the affair tell the husband, ( get proof more than just Ur say so )
find out who he kissed and if it gets to u kick him to the curb ANSWER: Yes it is. What you husband is doing, is cheating in the heart. Making out with this woman can justify as cheating. They haven't reach the second level of their relationship. Married men will always say they weren't having an affairs, because only kissing. Men thinks that having intercourse with the other woman is affair. My husband included. And the man I married is well educated, so for him to tell me that he wasn't cheating or having affair is lame. In short he is having an affair because he is kissing a woman who is not his wife..
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.