How can you tell if he stopped caring about you?

Answer 1

This type of question usually arises when a couple have split up, not because one or the other has ended the relationship but because there was a big fight that resulted inthe partiesangrily agreeing to never see the other again. Later, one of them regrets it. If that's the case here, and you are regretful, there's a chance he is, too, and doesn't have the courage to call you. You should call him to talk about it and find out for sure. There are no secret or subtle signals or codes for finding stuff like this out. If he broke up with you, however, you should assume that he no longer cares for you, particularly if he has made no attempt to contact you. If you really must know for sure, you could contact him and ask him whether he's interested in getting back together. This, of course, exposes you to the possible humiliation of being rejected again. If you broke it off with him, well, then the risk is lower, but it's still there, since he may have met someone else and is quite happy with her. In any event, there is no substitute for getting it right from the horse's mouth. It may be a bit hurtful to your pride and ego, but it will clear things up with little ambiguity.

Answer 2

I've asked my self this questions plenty of times. Think about how he used to treat you. Was eveything about him, was there trust issues? Also think about what he has done to make you questions yourself. Has this been a persistent thing or a one time deal?

But does he put any effort in to the relationship now? Does he call you or tells he love you?

Ask him be like whats up with me and you.

Answer 3

you can tell if he still cares if he is willig to still go places with you just as friends and talks to you and worries when theres something wrong and see if he can do anything to help you out

Answer 4

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There are many levels of the word "care", and it depends on how long the relationship has been going on. No one who really loves someone deeply really ever stops caring, unless something happens that completely poisons the relationship. But even then subconsciously we still care about someone we've loved at some level.

Just because someone may appear to have stopped caring about you doesn't mean it's actually true (although catching him in bed with another person would be a big clue...). There are many things in life that cause distractions and changes in behavior over time that appear to be a change in attitude toward a loved one, but that's doesn't mean it's the case at all. In fact many times it's just the insecurity of the person asking the question.

To use my own personal example, my health has lead to 3 major spinal operations over the past 12 years. It's also left me in formal Pain Mgt. for 10 years, and most of that time has been with opiate therapy. Opiates are great in that they allow you to lead a semblance of a normal life, but they have effects on your mood. My wife has been convinced many times that I don't care anymore about her or my daughter over the years, but it's exactly the opposite. She's finally learned that it's not me - it's the side effects of the drugs. I only dated her for 5 weeks before proposing - last April was our 27th Anniversary.

I'm sure people here who can't last a week in a relationship will post mounds of advice on what to look for, but in the end it's usually BS anyway as everyone behaves differently. Nothing beats communication - if you're wondering if your boyfriend or spouse is moving in another direction, get it out in the open. If so, at least you'll know, however much it may hurt. That's the real reason people don't ask - no one wants to hear bad news. Then again, it's an automatic NO if you don't ask.

Ask already and get it out in the open - worst case your fears will be realized, and you can start to move on yourself. If not - flowers or a good present wil be in order from him for making you feel unwanted. (RAVEN)

Answer 5

If he still texts, IM's or phones you. If he has asked you out on a date. If he has not done any of these things then it sounds like he is not interested or he has moved on.