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Seriously, you don't. Each person is responsible for his or her own happiness and feeling 'complete'. A relationship is intended to ADD to the lives of TWO people, NOT to "complete" either person.

If the idea that someone else makes each of us "complete", that would logically mean as well that none of us are full human beings, complete within ourselves. We'd only be a percentage of our true capacity as a fully functioning human being. But, it would not be a specific rate of "incompleteness", since each of us are unique. So, if it would be true that none of us are complete, and that our incompleteness would vary from person to person, then one could argue that none of us would ever be complete in a relationship since there'd be varying rates of incompleteness. Put another way -- If one person is "incomplete", say they are lacking 30% of "completeness", and they meet and fall in love with another person who is (according to this argument) incomplete and are lacking 27% of their "completeness", entering into a relationship still would make neither one "complete".

Males and females can do things to help the other person feel appreciated, respected, liked, loved, etc. But, NO one can ever make another human being "complete". Instead, each person must grow themselves into mature, thinking, feeling, and caring beings who can then SHARE their own completeness as a human being with someone else.

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14y ago

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