When you go on the multiplayer menu, you either click XBOX LIVE or PlayStation Network depending on which console you have. then it comes up with a screen with you gamertag on the top right, this is the party screen. DONT find a game. Invite you friends to your party and once you have all you people find a game. In the pre-game lobby people in you party should appear blue.
You need to make your own party in black ops and go to there profile and invite them
You can't make one on black ops, you can on your computer, though.
It is probably a problem with your internet connection with you and the other players. If not, make sure that your party settings aren't on closed.
the WORST games EVER are call of duty 4, oops prank party, Black ops for wii, black ops for the xbox and black ops for the ps3
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Unfortunately, you can't change any of the settings in Black Ops multiplayer.
zombie mode is in black ops because of public demand. tryarch was to help make black ops and in world war tryarch made nazi zombies so when they made black ops they included it in
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