Wank off first
yes
I think that it depends on the girl. My girlfriend didnt hurt one bit. She just said it was a little uncomfortable.
you shouldn't have sex until you know for a fact that your ready and make sure that you have found the right guy/girl
Don't do it! Sex can be scary, especially the first time. And it can hurt -- at least at first. That's why you want to wait until you meet someone you can trust, who will care as much about you as about himself (or herself). Please trust me on this. Sex can be a wonderful thing, but if your first experience is bad, it can spoil it for the future. It's your body, and you should do what feels right for you -- don't get pushed into something you don't want.
show her that you care and that you would never hurt her even though her last bf was like that show her that you are not and show her that you really trully care. just grab her and have sex with her show her how good you can have sex and how good it fells and if she says no just make her if she hates you at lest you had a great time putting your penis in her vagina and trust me she wont hate you after having sex if u do that it is rape just tell her u would never try to hurt her and u tell her to try one more time at least and when she say yes then show her what u can do
It's best not to have high expectations for your first time. It will likely hurt at least a bit if you are a woman, and men will be nervous and probably not perform at their best. It gets better over time.
It might hurt a little the first few times you have sex again.
There is no magic recipe. The key things are to take it slow, keep it short, relax and do not plan it. Tension, stress or apprehension can cause muscle to tense up, which is a big problem. Make sure to spend a LOT of time on foreplay. PS Never make the decision to have sex for the first time while making out or fooling around. That should always be a 'clearheaded' decision for both of you. However, after the decision is made just let it happen, you will know when...
Stick big stuff in and pull in and out really fast
it will for a life time if you don't protect yourself! take it slow and easy and you will enjoy sex for the rest of your life!
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Actually a lot of people get nervous when they first make out. It is the first time they get so close to a person of the opossite sex and that's why this happens.