How do you overcome the fear of having intercourse?

Answer 1

Take it one step at a time. 1. Kiss on cheek 2. Peck on lips 3. French kiss 4. Caress through clothing 5. Caress under clothing 6. Sleep together in same bed naked 7. Blow job if woman, "eating out" if man 8. Have sex for just a few minutes and gradually increase over time Don't rush; you are under no obligation to have sex. To have a healthy relationship, you need to be stable. So go gradually.

Answer 2

Well that all depends alot on how compfortable you are with your partner. Foreplay can help bring out the tiger in anyone and in most cases go with the flow and don't be afraid to enjoy and express how good you feel, it will turn your partner completley on knowing they gave you that much pleasure because you never know your partner might have the same fear you do so its a win win situation regaudless. Even if your afraid your doing something wrong but like it do it with confidence because they are only human just like you. My sister is 34yrs old and she is still a virgin. She has had plenty of offers but has turned them down even if she really likes the guy and gets to know him. Its not that she doesnt want to she is afraid of not knowing if she doing it right so she has never had a relationship because she knows eventually the sex word or feeling will come up , but we all are beginers at some point and if you really like the person go for it because they wouldn't if they didnt like you the same. Also it could help you to let your partner make the first move just be prepared every single time you see them that it could happen that day if the attraction is there and mood is right. If you refuse the person you like they may think something is wrong with them if its happend more than once, don't be scared to let them know how you feel. My first love waited six months into our relationship before I had intercourse with him and he knew I was terrified and nervous and that was a major plus because he was so patient and very gentle and so honored that he was given something sacred that nobody could ever take away. Our relationship lasted 9 years and blessed us with two children. If you believe you should wait till marriage to have intercourse be proud and up front about it cause it's very rare these days and you can weed out all the ones that are there for one thing. Find trust in the person and ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection.

Answer 3

Find someone you can trust to take it slowly, and build up your comfort level with them. Then, you have to want to overcome it; it might take a few false starts, but you cannot do something if you won't ever try it.

Answer 4

by being exposed it it as often as you can. ie: porn