If you mean program as in connect it to the console, you hit the small connection button on the 360, then the small connection button on the controller. They should sync automatically.
No
yes you can play the beatles rock band with the xbox360 controller if you have an xbox and if your singing
Yes. All you need to do is re-sync it to their Xbox360.
No.
It is located in the center of the controller. It is circular and has an "X" at the center.
yes
No you must have an Xbox360 controller. There are both wireless and wired ones. I would reccommend getting a "Play and Charge Kit" if you get wireless.
They just tell you that a controller is on or plugged in
yes u can but i takes a while for me to find a guide
No, just a different controller skin.
you plug the end into the bottom of the controller
if ur on about controller then no. o yea the xbox360 controllers are wireless just in case u didnt know:) Yes, guitar hero.