Ok think first how your parents use to treat you and hated it with a passion. Children will be children im not saying let them do what they want but show them a little privacy and let them have some freedom talk them how you would want them to talk to you
If you set a good personal example with you own behavior, and respect them then your children may respect you.
Although children often do obey, care for and respect their parents there in no responsibility or requirement for them to do so. This is an earned response from children to parents who care for and respect their children.
Children who command respect .
Provide examples of how you encourage children to respect differences?
with respect
encourage and support children to respect and value other people's individuality
Respect are never taught. They're earned. To earned respect, be respectful.
The children were treated with loveand respect
children can't say dirty words to their mother and father because of respect and if you respect your mother and father you would show respect.
When treated with respect, children learn positive behavior
children should be respected because if you don't respect them they won't respect you and won't listen to you they will do what they want and also they will adapt bad habits.
Of course she does, but with 8 children sometimes things get out of hand.