How do you settle a sibling rivalry?

Answer 1

We are in our 60's distance of 6 years has not helped because the older sister does not want get passed pass sensitivities by saying that her husband would like us to come socializing and older sister said to me what did I say her husband and more

negative comments. I reminder if this happens I am out of there. I stop calling and she called back asked why I was not calling. I do not want her husband to be in the

middle.