well you shouldn't hate yourself you should hate the person that abused you...because you didnt do anything wrong
Answer: you shouldn't hate yourself neither the other person because it.was what you wanted at one time and if it turned out to be an abusive relationship so you learn what to do and what to avoid in the next relationship .
by learning it
"When can you let your guard down and feel safe after leaving an abusive relationship?" It varies for everyone. But in my case when the abuser has decided to leave me alone and move on. I believe letting your guard down requires you to understand the reasons why you got into an abusive relationship in the first place so that you can protect yourself in the future. There are steps to take that will keep you safe, (both physically and emotionaly), that you are responsible for learning and implimenting. When you research the ways to avoid and stop abuse, you will see the things you did to invite and tolorate the abuse. When you are clear about what you did, and the things nessesary to protect yourself now that you are out, you will feel much safer.
You don't . You can't. Sometimes , one has to learn that the hard way to really comprehend it. You can try to get over them.... but as far as ridding yourself of what you feel... impossible Answer So true. You cannot stop your feelings no matter what you do. Yes you can! You can stop feeling sorry for yourself, can't you? You can stop hating, can't you?
you can stop hating peple by trying to see the better side of the situation you can go to church and pray about it or you can just kill them
Stop hating first of all and you'll be much better grounded and happy, individual...& educate yourself and stop acting so darn foolish!
Standing up for yourself is simply saying that you will no longer tolerate abusive behavior, and backing it up by leaving it if does not stop. You cannot "deal" with abusers. If they refuse to get counseling, you need to get away from them. Untreated, abuse almost always gets worse with time.
stop being an fukhed to everyone
Stop hating dogs.
when men stop being so selfish and arrogant -.-
If he touches you in any other matter than a comforting or intimate wanted way then he is physically abusing you and yes this is a abusive relationship that can progressively get worse if you are already allowing him to do what he is doing at this point. When he tries to let you be in control of anything that is his way of trying to shift his guilt to you and to blame you again abusive emotionally. You must do what is best for yourself and get out of the relationship as soon as possible. do not ever let a man put his hands on you in a violent way because it will more than likely lead to worse things, so talk to him and if it doesn't stop, then he's not worth it and get out!
Do you do anything other than have sex together, like: go out with friends; meet each other's families; have dinner; go to movies/sporting events/school events together. If not, it's a safe bet the relationship is purely sexual. If that's not what you want, then you need to stop cooperating in sex and express yourself. Don't be surprised if your "partner" ends the relationship. Remember, a relationship solely based on sex is an abusive relationship. Stand up for yourself. You're deserving of better than that.
A relationship should be healthy, both physically and emotionally. It takes work but always love yourself and remember your own worth as a person who deserves to be treated with love and respect. If someone can't treat you the way you deserve to be treated than you are better off without them.