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well you shouldn't hate yourself you should hate the person that abused you...because you didnt do anything wrong

Answer: you shouldn't hate yourself neither the other person because it.was what you wanted at one time and if it turned out to be an abusive relationship so you learn what to do and what to avoid in the next relationship .

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