Why do you love him even though he has hurt you?

Answer 1

D-E-N-I-A-L.. Because that someone gives you what you want (material, fame, security, etc)...

Answer"How can you still be in love with someone after he has hurt you so?"

Good question. I think sometimens we get lost in what could've been instead of what is. It also depends largely on the circumstances as everything and everyone should be given weight and measure in any decision.

But it takes two to make a thing go right.

Best Wishes..

AnswerI wouldn't say it's simple as denial. We meet someone and fall in love, there are some good memories and then the relationship (in some cases) can turn sour. It's as simple as that. We don't know ourselves 100% so how can we be expected to know another 100%. You're grieving for "what was" not "what is." You did nothing wrong, and yet in some ways you may be blaming yourself for the way your mate is treating you. The human mind is a fantastic piece of work, but, it makes us who we are and how we treat others. In time you will realize it's time to move on from this person and that you weren't the cause of it. Always give the best of yourself, but don't forget to expect the best back!

Good luck

ANSWERif you truly are in love, then you will still love him even if he has hurt you. you love him even when he is mean, if he cheats, if he gambles. to truly love someone is to love all of them, even the dark monster inside. you get through the tough together and make that love stronger.

-Sathas.

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Absolutely. We all make mistakes and sometimes hurt the ones we love even if we don't intend to. If we didn't love, we wouldn't be hurt by someones actions. If you know he or she is a good person and wouldn't intentionally hurt you then we should forgive. It depends on the circumstances but if you truly love someone you forgive. When someone hurts you over and over with no regard to your feelings, that's a diffierent situation. That is not love. Love must be present on both sides of the relationship.

Answer 2

No one ever wants to hear this but: Time heals all wounds. For me, I got over the man that hurt me because we ended it, and then a month later when I was okay to talk to him, we ended on good terms. That instantly made me feel better and helped me get over him.

Answer 3

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Answer: Love should never hurt intentionally. Yes it is gonna hurt emotionally, but it shouldn't never hurt physically. Relationships take work and to really love someone you have to accept their faults, but you don't have to accept their mistakes. Never go into a relationship looking for the other person to make your self-essteem higher. Love starts with yourself.

Answer 4

I'm not going to lie....it's extremely difficult. I was in the same situation years ago. The pain was so extreme that I didn't think that I could go on without him. (He cheated with a girl that actually resembled me.) I even wanted to take him back to ease MY pain knowing that he would probably cheat again. I hurt for awhile, but looking back it was blessing in disguise. Years later, I met a wonderful guy & we had a beautiful son together. In short, that guy cheating on me was the best thing to ever happen to me! I wouldn't have the love & happiness that I do now. So, I want to wish you the best. Things happen for a reason. Trust me: you will move on to someone that deserves you & will be blessed!

well me i can't i love someone deeply and she hurts me a lot she choose a guy over me when she said she loves us the same way and it mosty hurts when she dates him and i find out he waits for me to be his since I'm bisexual but it hurts me to see that he's hidding stuff from her and i tried my best my limit to let her find out but it didnt work ever since that i been crying i couldn't stop loving her even though she hurt me a lot of times but for you you might can but me i can't forget about her its like my heart completely belongs to her no matter what she does to me she even said she would kill me if i killed her saw called cheating bf it hurts a lot most of all she says she loves a death to guy to any one she dates and wants me to help ive been waitng to be for her for quite some time about 2 years or 2 years in a half but to tell the truth if she wasn't so special to me i would had got over her long ago.....

Answer 5

Love is sometimes is not simple, kind nor rational. It can be hurtful, cruel and heart breaking. You can never help who you fall in love with but you do choose if you are going to let them hurt you.

It depends on how that person hurt you. It is usually the people we love that hurt us and it can happen from miscommunications, misunderstandings, disagreements, etc. Sometimes circumstances arise that the person may not have total control over. But, there is no excuse for emotional, mental, and/or physical abuse and I believe it would be very difficult to continue loving someone who is abusive to you. I also believe it would be difficult to continue to love someone who does hurtful things to you repeatedly. That is not love.

Answer 6

you loved him before and he loved you back, right? well down the road he might have lost interest in you and moved on, then you acted like you moved on so it didn't seem like you were bothering him. but inside, you still loved him so much. even thought he has hurt you, you still care for and cherish him inside.

Answer 7

Try dating again. (thats what i did) and plus, when that right person comes around, they'll make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else (:

Answer 8

because still i love her