How do you talk to your girlfriend when you are on a break?
If you and your girlfriend are on a temporary break, then you need to be subtle in the way you talk to her. Speak in a calm and quiet tone, this will show that you are remorseful and reassure her at the same time that you are serious about your relationship
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What should you do when your girlfriend wanted a break but when you ask her out or talk to her she gets mad for no reason plus her mom has made your life a waking nightmare?
Answer . Your girlfriend said it loud and clear "she wanted a break" so if you won't leave her alone and ask her out then that's why she is mad. You aren't listening! She is pressured by her mother and obviously you both are arguing about it and it's wearing on her. There is more to this story I …am sure.. Really think about yourself and why her mother would make your life in particular a waking nightmare. That's the big question here. Do you treat your girlfriend with respect? Are you loyal to her? Do you try in your relationship? Have you ever made any attempt to talk to her mother? There is a reason why the two of you have split up and it's time you both sat down and talked about it.. Perhaps you did nothing wrong at all, but don't you think you both owe it to each other to be honest in what is really going on and perhaps try talking to her mother? Even if her mother may resent you for some reason and you think it's unfair, whatever you do, don't argue with her and back off a bit. If you argue with the mother she will only dig in her heels further and you won't win out on this one. ( Full Answer )
How do you break the ice between you and your ex-girlfriend who just broke up with you weeks ago and has a hard time talking to you?
Answer . \nUnless you hang out with the same friends I'd move on. If are with the same group of friends, then you have to realize that she's hurting from the break-up and you don't get over that in a mere two weeks. In time, perhaps she will comes around, but what does it for most women is eith…er you both get back together or she finds another boyfriend. For now, you are going to have to keep picking the icicles off your face.\n. \nSorry\nMarcy. Answer . \nyou have to talk to her about it and see what's up. maybe ask if you guys could stay friends. don't wait too long to talk to her. =) ( Full Answer )
Everyday things Why don't you talk to her about her fave things like her fave colorand fave shopping mall? Or what about thing happening in your lifeand ask about hers.Hope this helps!!! ya right that will never work SHE WILL THINK YOU ARE GAY!!!! justflirt with her tell her how pretty she is (this… may sound like youare tying to get in her pants try to avoid sounding that way) orjust talk to her about every day things like random thoughts or askher how her day went AND LISTEN it always works No she will not think you are gay. You talk about her interest andthings you have in common. And if she wants to talk about a fightwith a friend or drama just listen. And Kat is right. Besides onlydumb blonds fall for that stupid "oo you're so pretty!" trick. How to talk to your girlfriend As a girl who grew up with brothers and male cousins, and who hashad several close male friends, I want to share with you guys outthere an insiders look into "How to Talk to Your Girlfriend". Iknow, it may seem sometimes like she is speaking in a completelydifferent language, one whose vocabulary consists of a lot of"feelings" and "emotions". The following guidelines, however, aregeneral relationship rules of communication that both sexes shouldfollow. 1. The "What's Wrong" trap: You fellows probably already know thisone. You ask your girlfriend, who is staring angrily at thetelevision, and not responding to your small talk, what is wrongwith her. She answers, "Nothing". I call this a trap because youcan either pretend to believe her, thus making her angrier that youare not sensing the obvious, i.e. that something IS wrong, or youcan continue to question her until she yells, "I told you itsNOTHING!" and storms out of the room in tears. So instead ofasking, "What's wrong?", ask, "How are you feeling?". The firstquestion carries an assumption that there is a problem; the secondis an invitation to discuss her feelings without a need to "fix"anything. Men tend to want to be relationship repairmen: ifsomething is broken, they want to fix it. Women, on the other hand,want to discuss the problem so they can work through itemotionally. We often feel there is no quick fix, and only want asympathetic ear. If your girlfriend looks upset/angry, don't viewthe situation as a question of right or wrong, or something thatcan be "repaired", but rather as an opportunity for her to tell youhow she is feeling free of judgment or solutions. 2. How to respond: After you have avoided the "What's Wrong" trap,and inquired how she is feeling, don't assume the response is aboutyou. The one thing worse than asking "What's wrong?" is asking"What did I do?". She may have had a bad day at work, or problemswith her friends or family, or she may just be feeling down. Ifthis is the case, just listen sympathetically. (Or pretend to besympathetic, if you are actually confused and overwhelmed). A goodresponse is, "Wow, that must have been really difficult to confronther like that", or, "It's understandable that you would be angryafter that happened". A bad response, and one that a lot of men useis, "Well, you shouldn't feel that way". This is actually one ofthe worst things you can say to your girlfriend. Even though youare trying to snap her out of it, and make her realize that she isover-reacting (at least in your opinion), she will see that as youdevaluing her emotions, which, to her, are completely valid. Thetruth is no one can tell another person how they should feel aboutany given situation, and saying this will only make her more angryand upset. By demonstrating that you give credibility to herfeelings, you can help her calm down, and build a strongerrelationship in the process. ( Full Answer )
if u r in a relationship and want to tlk to ur gf then start with saying hi on a sticky note than let the conversation flow. wen u feel comfortable with that then you should start tlking to her in person. start with hi. or wutz up. or maybe even how was ur nite. if u love this person start an "argum…ent" on who loves who the most. believe me. they won't care if u mess up on a word or if u feel nervous. ( Full Answer )
What does it mean if your girlfriend breaks up with you to get her 'mind off her ex' then gets back together again and now is not talking to you?
Answer . You are spoiling this girl and you need to put your foot down because she's using you! An honest person that needed to get over the emotional issues of their ex would tell you so, and let you know they needed "head space." She was not honest and was trying to get back with her ex, but… it obviously didn't work out so she came flying back to you. She still is wounded over her ex and it's painful when you love someone and they dump you or they could quite possibly have not treated the girl well and been abusive. She should have taken "time out" to think about things and not have involved you in this ping pong affect. \n. \nYou need to be firm and communicate to her that unless she is willing to express how she really feels and you can come to some understanding regarding her ex that you're finished with your relationship and she can hit the road. Remind her that you have feelings too and you deserve more respect than what you are getting.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy ( Full Answer )
Answer Say Hello, And Maybe Ask If She Is Doing Anything Later, And Make Her Feel Loved, Cared About! Let Her Know She Has A Shoulder To Lean On Yeah,? Maybe Arrange A Date With Her, If You Dont Feel Like A Date, Then Go Out With A Bunch Of People To Get Her Socializing With Friends That Will Hel…p Her With Her Shyness! xx :) ( Full Answer )
I mean how do I talk to my girlfriend. I'm thirteen and she's twelve, but she's always around her friend and I don't know what to say. So it's just silent and I've been dating her for three days and I really like her.
talk about how she feels. or how her day was. or just talk about girl stuff.
How do you win back your ex-girlfriend who decided to take a break and is talking to another guy but still loves you?
Answer . When you love someone you don't take the kind of breaks your girlfriend is taking. 'Ex' means that relationship is over. She could have said she wanted a week or two away from each other to think things out. This is when you should have clarified if that meant both of you were dating. Si…nce you agreed, then she can talk to anyone she wants. Just because she's talking to another guy doesn't mean she's in love with him or cheating on you.. Phone your ex girlfriend and tell her you would like to talk with her. Tell HER you want a clean break of things and no mind games. Let her know you want to be free to date others. She may tell you to do so, but often when either partner sees the other with another date it's a whole different story.. Only you know why you and your ex split up so there is reason here and it would be unfair of me to side with you completely without knowing why the break up. ( Full Answer )
Answer . hang with your home boys, it depends if you think you guys may consider getting back together in the future, but until its finalized i wouldn't suggest you do anything drastic to me taking a break is like being separated it just says HEY I'm tired of looking at you all the time so just c…all me when you need to. Now if you call her when you need her and she doesn't want to respond then hey that's a leave of absence and the show must go on. ( Full Answer )
you can talk about anything and everything! "How was your day" "Whats new" "Hows school/ your job" "What are you doing this weekend" "Which is your favourite part of your job/school"
Your question is hard to understand as it does not make sense however, you cannot force someone to do something they do not want and all you can do is try and if they do not want to give them some space and time. They obviously have their reasons for not wanting to talk to you.
well you should talk about each others life like your family and what you did when you were a kid Answer Talk about anything you want - both your likes/dislikes, general conversation about one anothers day/school/goals/future, it will get easier as you talk more and remember there is nothing wrong… with silence. When you can sit there and be comfortable around one another and not say anything but be happy that the other person is there then that is a very special quality. I think this is true, but i would also talk about her friends/your friends, how was their day, or what their doing that weekend. ( Full Answer )
Well mostly in a relationship its most important that the guy listens to what the girl says so that later when she brings it up you know what to talk about. She will get pi**ed if you dont listen. this is coming from a girl that this has happened to. be honest with her when u talk dont talk about sp…orts unless she likes them or she will lose interest in the conversation and hang up or walk away. if there is nothing else to talk about hold her in your arms and tell her you love her and give her a passionate but gentle kiss. - skuby hazel ( Full Answer )
This all depends on how long you have both been together for. If you have been together for months then she should hopefully be like your bestfriend. But as she is your girlfriend you can flirt with her too. Some girls like the little odd comments on how they look etc as it shows your keen but make …sure you say it from the heart.. If you have only been together for a little while (a weeks or so) ask her questions about her and her lifestyle. Not uncomfy question ie Sexual ones. ( Full Answer )
Let her do the talking; ask her how her day has been - plans for tomorrow. Sshow her you're interested in her as a person.
Tell her your true feelings and if you feel the urge to say something romantic tell her "I love you" Girls love to hear that stuff!! I wrote a poem, she loved it! XD
My girlfriend wants to break up with me as I had to go to a different place for work so what do I say to her during breakup She wants to talk to me about it tonight?
Answer . It depends on your ages; how far away you are going for work; how often you'll get to see each each other. If there is little time where you won't be seeing each other she is probably breaking off with you because people need to be together. Humans need contact and constant phone calls t…o text messages doesn't cut it in a long run. If there are ways you can be together more often then it's up to you to let her know that. If she still wants to break up then you are going to have to accept her decision and tell her .... 'then it couldn't have been love because people in love don't walk away because of a small obstacle. We can still see each other and keep in contact.' She may fear that you won't be faithful to her (that could happen even though you may not realize it) or, she may fear she can't be without a boyfriend for long periods of time. If you are meant to be together then you will be. ( Full Answer )
She may be afraid that there may be still something between the two of you, and that she may lose you to her. Sometimes it is jealousy, and at other times it may be that she is just very possessive in nature. Just try to understand her point of view. Many individuals would feel the same way. Be reas…suring if you really care for her. Personally, if I loved someone and this occurred, I would break off communication with the other women completely. This is just a personal opinion. OMG i just went thru this. my boyfriend actually broke up with me because im hanging out with my ex tomorrow. Basically my boyfriend told me that it was disrespectful and makes him look silly. He also said he doesnt trust my ex and he thinks that he still likes me. I think with your gf its true insecurity that she thinks your either cheat on her, begin to like your ex, or your ex will make a move on you. Its a really hard issue to go thru especially when i just went thru it. me and my boyfriend broke up because i felt he was trying to controll me and basically implied it's me or him. I see nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. yeah its a little iffy but as long as you know your not gonna be unfaithful then its okay. ( Full Answer )
What should you do when your girlfriend wanted a break but when you ask her out or talk to her she doesn't want to talk to me?
When someone wants a "break" it usually indicates they are second guessing the relationship, there may be someone else, may be letting you down easy, possibly does not want a commitment and/or more specifically a commitment with you. Also, when your on a break you usually take a break from one anoth…er which would mean that you don't talk or go out together etc. Unfortunately her specifically not wanting to speak with you at all would indicate that she is not interested in you at this time and it may be in your best interest to consider this over, let her be, let go and move on. You need to be realistic and see things for what they are. ( Full Answer )
Your ex girlfriend should have given a reason to you for breaking up and it's called 'communication.' No, you aren't wrong for talking with her for a week. Often young people are fickle and life is an adventure and they may stray from one partner to another. Perhaps she wants to be friends and not s…o serious or perhaps she may be still interested in you. It would be to your best interest to be friendly with her, but start dating other girls. If you don't she could control your actions and you could miss out on a lot of fun. If she really cares about you she'll come back. ( Full Answer )
Why would an ex boyfriend stop talking to you as much when he has a girlfriend but starts again when their relationship is going bad or they break up?
It is for the obvious reasons, I think you already know. He feels as if his current relatonship isn't really working, so he can fall back on you. DON'T FALL FOR IT!!! I'm a guy, believe me I know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She has heard about something that didn't make her happy with you, or you might have said something wrong. Or someone told her not to talk to you. It's childish, let her go.
I heard my girlfriend talked to her friends and she said she was going to break up with me can someone tell me why she would break up with me and how to solve it I really love her?
If she's so heartless that she doesnt have the decency to tell you before everyone else then she's not worth it. Love is a two way street, there's no point hanging onto someone who doesnt want or deserve you. Speak to her about it and your honesty might make her change her mind but she sounds like a… sneaky bint who's not worth it anyway. >.> Love doesn't really exist. Second Answer: There's no way to know why she's breaking up with you but if you really want to keep the relationship, you need to talk to her. It sounds like there's a problem with your communication since she's telling her friends important things about your relationship before discussing them with you. Talk about what's been missing for her, what you're willing to do to correct those things, and what you want from her in return. Remember: a relationship is between two people. You both need to come to the discussion as equals. You could suggest a trial period of being back together to work on the issues but have a date on which you'll decide...together...whether you'll keep going as a couple. ( Full Answer )
Is it wrong to worrie about breaking up soon with your girlfriend if she keeps talking about another guy and she lives far away from you?
Depends on how long you've been together, but - Yes that would worry me also. Have you asked her about it? That's your best bet.. Good luck, and sorry that you feel this way! Hope you get it cleared up very soon.
You love your girlfriend but lately it feels like you are not being respected You talk to her about it and she gets mad Are these terms for a break up?
Perhaps there is more to the situation than you are able to see. Something may be on her mind and she is not able to see your point of view beyond her own thoughts. Having a third opinion, mediator if you will may help. Sounds to me like it is just a gap in your communication. On the other hand, if …you are truly looking for an exit point in the relationship, it wont matter much if you break up over this situation or another. If you are not happy for any reason, (Say you just want to be on your own, don't want a commitment, etc.) the relationship will eventually end. Best way to get to the bottom of this is to be honest with yourself and each other. ( Full Answer )
tell her something in your life that isn't good and ask her advice let her feel your sensitive side
you can ask her questions or talk to her about what you both have in common and things will start from there
tell her things that you wanna do that you dont normally say tell her things like I'm not going to be at my house tomorrow shes gonna be like where are you going to be then you tell her in your bed or ask her so whats your name and she will be like what are you talking about then ask her again then …she'll tell you and say well i saw you the other day and couldn't help but notice you what you doing tonight and stuff like that play with her hope this helps ( Full Answer )
if he is tlking about breaking up with gf then say srry but "ur just not right for me i have other interests and ur just not one of them i hope we can be frends"
Maybe. But bear in mind, he is still with his girlfriend. So best case scenario, he breaks up with her, dates you...but then talks with some other girl about any problems you and he are having.
Having a girlfriend doesn't mean guys don't enjoy talking to other girls. Actually, when you have a girlfriend chatting with other girls gets only more interesting
OK, I'm a girl; if she is mad at you then your in trouble! If she has randomly stopped talking to you she probably doesn't want to go out with you or she is hiding something (probably cheating on you). Or she may be mad at you because you did something wrong and you didn't realize you did it. Or ano…ther girl was hitting on you or YOU WERE HITTING ON ANOTHER GIRL. The best thing to do is talk to her; tell her to let you know when she is ready to discuss her feelings. When she's ready, listen to what she has to say, don't be defensive if you want her to be honest with you. The only way to resolve problems is talking about them. ( Full Answer )
When your girlfriend talks about breaking up you should be asking her why she feels she needs to end the relationship. Communication is the most important tool one can learn in your life. Talk to her and find out if your relationship is worth saving. If she does not give you an explanation and she t…alks about breaking up realize that you are in control of your own life and the best thing you could do is tell her you are tired of her threatening to break up with you so you are going to break up with her and do so. This may shock her into realizing she does really care for you or, she may never come back, but that is a risk you will have to take. It is unhealthy to stay in a relationship where one partner is unsure as to whether they love you or not. ( Full Answer )
Nothing unless she's flirting. If she is flirting, whisper something in her ear that's funny or gossip about someone she doesnt like in her ear
music, what your interests are, movies. It depends on the person, generally you would want to find out her interests first. And get her to talk so you can to do more listening. Avoid talking about yourself alot.
Well first of all you should know that when you have a girfriend is not everything about kissing making out or (if you are adult)sex. If you have any (girl) friends you should know what to do.Ask her how was her day..is there anything new, tell her that you love her be romantic a little bit girls l…ove that but not to much cuz you'll look like your scared of loosing her, talk about simple things that surround you like school or some movies, music...games..gossip a little bit:p...just be yourself she'll see it ( Full Answer )
Well first off ask her sweetly and kindly what is wrong why is she mad at you. And say whatever you did to make klher angry you are truly sorry for (and mean it). Ask her then if she wants to talk about it. If she doesnt dont push her but this will make her more likely to open up to you.
probably to tell your new girlfriend it was your fault you broke up and that she shouldn't date you.
Try to let her steer the conversation. Eventually you will discover mutual interests & can dwell on those. Girls like a man that is interested in all of them, not just their bodies.
How do you get you ex girlfriend back after a bad break up and a lot of arguments during the relationship and she doesn't talk to you anymore?
Both of you were too immature to be in a relationship because of all the arguing. While many couples do have their arguments the mature ones have good communication skills which helps them deal with the problem and resolve it. It may be a good idea for both of you to be apart for awhile until you bo…th mature more and then after a few months try to contact her again and see if she is willing to get back into another relationship with you. ( Full Answer )
How do you get you ex girlfriend back after a bad break up and a lot of rows during the relationship and she doesn't talk to you?
Honestly when a breakup is done and one is not contacting to make things work. That means you should move on. And when you breakup and get back things will never be the same. You will find yourself breaking up ad gettig back..donuts not worth the trouble. If it's not meant to be it's not..the worst …thud you can do is forced it back. It just won't work. So I say let her go and just enjoy life sweetie ( Full Answer )
Mainly just listen to her and understand her. You can also play a game called Truth (Like Truth or Dare, but no dares) You can also just ask her LOTS of questions about herself (favorite color, animal, food, bands/singer, etc. what she did last night, her plans for the weekend, what profession… she wants to have, etc.) And when a girl say whats up, or watcha doin, etc. DO NOT say "nothing" and do not ever just say "lol"!!! Comment on what she said. Start and continue conversations. (I know this sounds stupid, but...) Pretend like you are a girl when you talk to her. Always give her compliments! ( Full Answer )
What does it mean when a guy talks to you a lot then gets a girlfriend and stops talking to you then they break up and starts talking to you again?
Ur his second choice. Or he doesnt wan he girl he is with to thin kthst u 2 are together so he ignores you which is wrong. One day he Might see u as just a midnight booty call or a friend with benefits.
Just go over to her, or hug her from behind then start talking,, hope this helped :)
It depends on your age. Its nice just to have someone to sit next to after age 80. Younger folks have more energy - needs.
There really is no one way to avoid heartbreak... If she cares about you, she'll be upset. Don't take it personally if she says hurtful things to you; hurt people hurt people. The best way to go about it would be to tell her positive things about her.. Tell her of any area of life she's halped you i…n, and tell her you never wanted to hurt her. Tell her your reasons for breaking up.. Don't leave her hanging! Try to avoid telling her things that you dislike about her- that will leave her thinking she needs to change, or that she wasn't good enough. Be gentle, and as sweet as possible. If she starts to yell or get upset, don't raise your voice back. Stay calm and steady. Most importantly, DO NOT TEXT IT TO HER! This is a face-to-face conversation. A text or an e-mail will make it that much harder for her. Good luck! Be gentle! ( Full Answer )
Having a relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend takes time and this part of your relationship is to find out what each of you are interested in your lives and if you have any similar interests. Communication is the key to a good relationship. It's loving each other; respect; honesty; agreeing to d…isagree (you may not always agree with each other, but you can take part of each others opinions to come to a conclusion to any problem) and loyalty. You can talk about each others hopes and dreams for the future; what type of music you like; what bands you enjoy as well as movies you enjoy together. ( Full Answer )
If you are suggesting that girls who have boyfriends should be forbidden from ever talking to other males, you are far off track. But if you must break up with girlfriends because of this, then go ahead. You are doing them a service.
When you and your girlfriend talk on the phone it is really awkward and you do not want to break up with her so what should you do?
The next time you see your girlfriend be honest and tell her you are not comfortable talking on the phone (perhaps text her instead) and if she loves you she'll understand. Always be honest with your feelings. . The number one thing you should do is be more confident, find more funny things to …talk about, and dont worry about it. If you worry about then its just going to get worst. So taking her to a movie or a function will make it really interesting, and you can have more to talk about. But dont worry if your smart enough to ask you must really care about her. ( Full Answer )