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Tell him you need to talk to him away from anyone else (that way there's no peer pressure) then calmly tell him you don't like him and you two aren't going to be anything more than friends.
Be polite and straight forward simply tell him you are flattered that he likes you but you are not interested sorry. Keep it simple and polite - no need to be rude or make them feel uncomfortable.
you open your mouth and say "im sorry but i don't like you the way you like me" don't be mean, or rude, be sincere, dont be obnoxious and dont yell or tell the whole world dont put it in writing or send someone to tell him

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10y ago

You have to be honest with him. If you were to maybe include some half-truths or lies, it could really mess things up. Just say something along the lines of 'You're great, but I'm really just not interested in you. Sorry!' Guys can be moody, so if initially he's upset, it's understandable, but hopefully he'll be okay with it in his own time. Hope this helped!

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14y ago

Let him down easy. Make sure you look sympathetic and apologise. Just say to him " I am so sorry ......, I just am not looking for a relationship now." Just be nice and once you let him down, Don't talk about to anyonee but very close friends who won't tell the world

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16y ago

There are a few ways to go about this. You can use the avoidance technique and suddenly be busy every time he wants to get together or you can be upfront and tell him "I have a lot going on in my life right now. I don't have the time to develop a new friendship right now. I'll let you know when things slow down."

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14y ago

you sit him down and tell him. dont beat around the bush. try to treat him the way you would want to be treated in this situation.hes gonna be hurt but its better than staying with him and drawing out his suffering.

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14y ago

The best way to tell a guy that you don't feel the same way he does is to say, "I know you like me and I wished I did too, but for some reason I don't feel the chemistry that you feel for me." By telling him this, it makes you seem a little less harsh. It also lets him know that you feel bad for not feeling the same way.

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12y ago

Consolidating the loans may be a helpful thing if you find a good interest rate. This is due to the fact that with a normal interest rate people will not have the ability to pay it off faster.

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14y ago

there's no nice way, and expect to lose him as a friend also.

either that or he'll always be your doormat.

enjoy breaking his heart every time you get a new boyfriend

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15y ago

Be straight forward, honest and polite.

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