How do you tell if another guy may be into you?

Answer 1

He may look at you for a longer period of time than other less interested guys might. He may offer you a complement on your "look" or "style" or eye color or something a bit personal. He might share a private bit of info with you and you only. He might visit you at work, at home, or call a bit more often than others. He could find some interest in things you are already interested in. His touch can be a good clue, like leaning into the side of your arm or chest as if to almost hug you. Basically it is the eye contact, verbal cues, and physical closeness that can be the best indicators.

Eye contact is HUGE among gay males. Traditionally, if one male stares at another, then they are forming a fight scenario of some kind....it just isn't done between heteros. Gays on the other hand are free to communicate with eye contact-it's what we do. Just make sure the guy you're staring at isn't a raging homophobe. Best way is to candidly talk about gay hate crimes, gay civil right, gay marriage etc. Gage his answers carefully. Proceed to other things if you feel you have a green light. Guys like bonding, all guys to some extent....it doesn't mean they are gay, however. I've even had very touchy heteros make what I would guess to be obvious cues towards me. No, they were just touchy heteros. With some people it just takes time, a lot of talking and familiarity.