How do you tell if husband has cheated?

Answer 1

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You think he's cheated, but you aren't sure. I think that you have to ask yourself what has changed between us to make me think that he's cheating? Is he still holding you like he used to do? Does he still want to make love to you as much as he did this time last year. Is he bitchy with you for no reason that you can explain? Some of the questions that you might want to ask yourself and if you don't reach a conclusion that pleases you, why not come right out and ask him. Watch his eyes when he answers you.

Good luck

Answer 2

It's difficult to know for sure especially if he cheats with someone at work. However, second-guessing is wrong and he may not be cheating on you at all. You both should be able to handle this in an adult way and sit down and communicate what is wrong with your marriage and simply come out and ask him if he wants to remain married and if he is interested in someone else.

These are some signs, but not always a correct way to size things up:

• He suddenly works a lot of O/T
• He makes many excuses such as saying he has met a friend and they went out for drinks and he lost track of time.
• You are getting phone calls in the evening and if you there is silence or the person hangs up.
• If someone calls in the evening and you're husband makes that extra energetic leap to the phone and moves to a different room to talk.
• If he keeps his cell phone close to him so you can't get at it.
• Check out the computer to see if he's been emailing her (if at all.)
• If he is constantly out with his male friends.
• If he often comes home late from work when he should be home at dinnertime.
• You smell perfume off him. (Be sure it's not his own aftershave!)
• If he says he has to work over the weekend for a few hours.
• If your husband travels in his job and he is constantly going on trips this may be questionable depending on his line of work.

If you have a gut feeling he is cheating then you and a friend can follow him one evening to see what he is up too. This is how I caught my first husband cheating. If you can afford it you can hire a detective to follow your husband and it shouldn't take more than a month for the detective to give you a report as to whether your husband is cheating or not.

Beware! Your husband could truly be a good man and has to work hard (my second husband does) and it's better to sit down with your husband one night and express your feelings to him. Don't accuse him of cheating right off the bat! Just tell him you would like to sort out your lives so both of you can spend more time together and hopefully you both can come to an amicable agreement and start having some 'up close and personal' fun.

Answer 3

If you find your husband withdrawing from you (emotionally, sexually, spiritually) and it's not his normal behavior, that's a sign. If your spouse appears to be getting secretive about things like his cell phone records, email, where he goes online (i.e. deleting the history, not wanting you to be around when he's online), that's a sign. Your sixth sense, or intuition, telling you something's off about where he's going early in the morning or late at night is a sign. Is he at work when he says he's at work? Is there money leaving your joint bank account that you can't account for? Does he get calls on his cell phone that are immediately hung up if you're around? These are all signs. At the end of the day, the single best way to know the truth is to trust your gut and ask him openly. You've been with him long enough to know if he's lying to you.