Follow your gut
No, a woman should not feel special if her husband said she was a lot better than his mistress because he cheated on her and he will continue to cheat.
Ask yourself why you did it, if it was worth it, if you love your husband. However if you want to stay with him for the sake of your marriage, both of you should try new things, spiritual quest, trips, cruise, light the fire again. Talk about your feelings to each other, spend a lot of time together.
most definately If its your woman you should know. Anyway just ask her and see how she reacts. It can tell a lot
it depends on the husband. you should ask him. it will save a lot of trouble and worry.
well you should move on there's a lot of fish in the sea but take you're time love is hard to find.
There had to be some signs in that 10 years where you knew he was cheating. If you knew then you enabled his behavior and did not attempt to give him a decision to either stop seeing this woman or file for divorce if he refused to stop seeing her. It is time for you to use your communication skills and tell him that he either chooses you or her. If he refuses then the only way you will be free and happy is to get a divorce and move on in your life. There are a lot of nice men out there and you can do better than your husband and you deserve better!
I gues the most difficult word in the world to say is "sorry". Of course I don't know exactly what you did to hurt him, but I really think you should not only tell him you're sorry, but also tell him the whole story, ask your husband if he can forgive you and talk a lot together.
ask him for the passwordmake a new accountmake him tell it you with a lot of force
If he cheated, move on. He isn't worth sobbing about. "Don't let your history control your past" is a quote I say a lot. Read The Noticer by Andy Andrews it might change you.
You need to be completely honest, if he loves you truely, and you love him, you will get through it
That means she's married and you should let her go.
two wrongs dont make a right... you just need to move on if she's not real enough to tell you the turth. if you don't have trust you dont have anything its key to a relationship