Very young children do not understand that the activity was inappropriate morally, but they still have a sense that something is wrong. They will act out inappropriately. They may exhibit a lack of trust because they have been violated or conversely they may exhibit too much trust in strangers because a parent has permitted the violation and they no longer find safety with the parent. They may mumble odd things because they want to "disclose" but are afraid too. Social Services should not be called in unless you have no choice. They are too pressured to properly evaluate a child that young. It often takes hours of getting to know the child and objective evaluation to get at the truth, they don't have the time or the training. Ask your doctor or go to the local emergency room for a referral to a good child psychologist or therapist who can make a proper evaluation. Sexual abuse of children is much higher than society admits, ask around and you will find someone with the proper training.
You need to tell someone asap! I know how hard it is, I've been through it all. If you need someone to talk about it with, I will be open for you. :)
That's not a good thing for her to do. Perhaps she has been sexually abused by someone. Sat down with her and tell her that that is not a good thing to do. Tell her that she could talk to you about things if anyone has hurt her in anyway.
Her Uncle, her cousin, and a Family Friend. They all watched after her while her mom was at work. They gave her ice cream and told her not to tell.
Jackie E. has written: 'Never tell mommy' -- subject(s): Biography, Incest victims, Sexually abused children
She may tell you herself , once you are very friendly with her. If she has already told you, and you are not sure if you believe her, give her the benefit of the doubt and encourage her to confide in a school counselor, nurse, or other person of authority.
Been with you sexually? Or just relationship wise? well there are some things to look into, first if he doesn't know what he's doing. You can also tell by his shyness, or sweat glances. If you mean sexually, get him tested.
A traumatic experience for any toddler, there are some signs and "symptoms" of previous sexual abuse towards him or her. Some signs that may possibly indicate some sort of sexual abuse are: * Any sudden obsession with his or her own genitals outside of normal "exploration" that toddlers sometimes practice. * Redness or swelling around the genitals and/or anus. * Sudden recognition of sexual terminology or subjects. * Sudden changes in behavior: moodiness, sullen, violence, etc. Sexual abuse is commonly committed by a friend or family member. Never leave your child with someone whom you do not fully trust. Take your child to his or her pediatrician for an exam if you suspect the toddler has been abused. If your pediatrician finds evidence, he or she will advise you of the protocol in your area for reporting sexual abuse.
If you have any suspicion your toddler drank bleach, take them immediately to the hospital.
You can tell if a guy is sexually attracted to you by how he treats you. If he is always trying to touch to you and get close, he may be sexually attracted to you.
If you meet an abused person in the street, there are seldom any obvoius signs of the abuse. Mental attitude to general friendships and to sex may give a clue.
Tell another relative, a teacher, a police officer, or someone else you trust.
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