How does a 13 year old guy tell his 14 year old girlfriend that she doesn't have to be flirty anymore since their going out?

Answer 1

Flirting doesn't usually stop because you are going out. It is a way for the two people involved to show how much they like each other, and something that they can do together to keep the relationship going. Again, there are girls who simply like to flirt because they find it fun and it is they know to interact with people. If you don't like her flirting, you can try talking to her about it, but first think why you don't like it; are you afraid she will flirt with other people? Do you find the flirting gets in the way of other things you do together? Make sure you know the reasons yourself. Make it clear that you like her for who she is, not because of her flirting. Finally, you might just have to compromise: you have a good friend, so don't throw her away for a minor and common quirk of character.