The court has no interest in the personal lives of either the step child or the uncle unless they are in violation of the law. If the step child is a minor the uncle could be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor and statutory rape. The child could be charged with juvenile delinquency. If the couple claims to have a platonic loving relationship, questions and eyebrows are certainly raised but I don't believe there are laws against a platonic relationship between adult and child.
If the "child" is legally considered to be an adult, there may be ethical issues but not legal ones.
You can not break a court order, breaking the law, based on how you feel. You have to be able to prove this in court. Until then the order must be followed.
When you feel that you are safe and comfortable around the person.
It's the court who decides. You have to return to court and ask to have it modified if you feel you are paying too much.
If there are no court orders regarding custody and visitation then legally speaking, no. However, the courts do not look favorably on a parent who keeps a child from the other parent unless there is a danger to the child to be around the other parent.
Unless there is a court order that removes contact from the mother due to a medically proven mental illness, then you should return the child after a visitation period that may have been court assigned. If you feel that your child's safety is at risk, then you will need to get a court order to request a change to the current custody arrangement.
ABSOLUTELY. However if the grandparent has visitation rights ordered by the court, it must be addressed immediately in the custodial court and the visitation may be modified or removed. Primary concern should always be the well being and safety of the child.
If you have joint custody of your child and disagree re the fathers Day Care then you should try talking to him first and if that doesn't work then go to court. You have to prove that the child is truly in a harmful environment.
Of course. Child support is for the child, not the custodial parent and even if the child is not living in the home, expenses for that child continue and need to be met. If you feel the support you pay is being diverted for illegal purposes, you are free to petition the court for modification of the support order or request the child support be paid to the people where the child is living.
I believe "please don't quote me" that it is considered where the child has been residing and/or raised. One of the biggest rules in family court is "best interest of the child/ren", generally unless the environment that the child is living in is unhealthy,unsafe,and/or detrimental to a child the court considers those first but weighs towards not disrupting a child's place,"home" of emotional and physical stability. They tend to feel it is best if the child remains in his/her home.
They start dating.
it depends on how long you were dating. if you were dating for a while, then you should feel upset if you really like/loved him. if you were dating for just a short time then you shouldn't really feel anything.
You should feel really good about your child always.