Okonkwo became a great wrestler and warrior. He became a prolific farmer. He took 3 wives and sired multiple children. Further, he took several titles. He shows little emotion, and little patience for agbala.
"Okonkwo was a man." "Did you see that man, Okonkwo?" "You are my son. Okonkwo, I am your father!"
Okonkwo becomes a father to Ikemefuna, and Ikemefuna calls Okonkwo father. Ikemefuna is like the second man in the house, the closest to Okonkwo's personality, and helps to develop Nwoye's manhood. Okonkwo likes Ikemefuna, but does not show his feelings towards Ikemefuna because to do so would be unmanly.
Okonkwo was not ostracized. Okonkwo was exiled for killing a man. Okonkwo was spoken badly of when he was not outwardly repentant after breaking the Week of Peace. Okonkwo was distanced from after he kills a messenger.
he's more like Obierika but Uchendu is lazy and more feminine.
-Okonkwo had a loss of appetite. -The bitterness in his heart was mixed with a king of child like excitement. I am pretty sure that is the answer.
Obierika despairs for Okonkwo and blames the colonists for Okonkwo's death. His best friend, a man who took two titles, has been driven to dishonourable suicide and must be buried like a dog.
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Okonkwo's uncle, Uchendu, advises him to not mourn like a child after being exiled. Instead, he encourages Okonkwo to be strong like a man and face his challenges with resilience. Uchendu emphasizes the importance of moving forward and not dwelling on past misfortunes.
Okonkwo is ashamed of his father Unoka. He feels his father is weak, effeminate, and made fun of by other members of the tribe. Okonkwo feels a man should be strong like a warrior, but his father is shy of blood. Okonkwo feels a man should be hard working and provide for his family, but Unoka is lazy, and a very poor farmer. Okonkwo ends up inheriting nothing from his father.
Okonkwo chooses not to be a lackluster man like his father and works every step of the way to further his goals.
Okonkwo must die because he kills another man. The justice of the white man is to take a life for a life taken.
Okonkwo is a man who prefers to work as opposed to celebrate. Okonkwo is not a social animal, and he is forced to not work during these times.