It depends on if the kid's are theres. If its theres then whenever he/she wants to see them, but most separated/divorced couples just do it so that the other parent can see the kid's on weekends or every other weekend. My parents, when i lived with my mom did it so that i only went to my dads on the weekends unless i wanted to hangout with friend's then i would go the next weekend. But now I'm 17 and live with my dad and my mom lives about an hour away from me, so i barely ever see her.
Sue him or take him to court
* If he is in contact with his ex while being with you then anything is possible. Unless there are children involved where he has to see his ex to see his children, then he should have moved on from his ex. If he is still seeing his ex tell him it's either her or you. Never take a back seat to another woman in regards to your mate. Don't blame his ex, blame him!
Are you asking if you should make contact with your ex husband??
If the court order prohibits your ex's girlfriend from contacting your children and she continues to do so, she is in contempt of court. You should make petition or appropriate application to the court to hold her in contempt and perhaps even fine her for not obeying a direct court order. You should also take whatever measures you can to stop the contact such as limiting as much as possible her opportunities to see the children. For example, if she visits them at school, the principal should be notified that is prohibited by court order.
i think you should call you ur ex husband his real name and when referring to his children it depends wether or not he had them with someone else...maybe just my "ex's children"
There is nothing wrong with what she is saying because your children with your ex are her step children. It is doubtful she is saying this to be nasty to your children and you should realize that your children think of you and your ex husband as their parents and your ex husband's wife may not be well accepted by your children because children always hope their parents will get back together again.
can you give more about the situation?
No.
take it to court
If there are children involved then your husband has to be in contact with his ex wife because of the children. However, if there are no children involved there is no need for him to be in contact with his ex wife and you need to make it clear to him that it is either her or you. Let him know you are willing to file for divorce if he does not leave his ex out of your lives and tell him that 'ex' means the relationship is over.
No, never look back.
Check with a lawyer just to be safe. If your ex has had nothing to do with the children in several years which includes absolute zero contact, and you are unable to contact your ex, and also do not know where they live, you may very well be within your rights to move.