How painful is the first?

Answer 1

I am assuming that you are asking from the perspective of a woman who is having vaginal inercourse for the first time. The experience can range from unpleasant to mildly painful to quite painful with screaming and struggling on the part of the woman. It has a lot to do with the man she is with. But even with the most loving, patient, and skilled man the first sexual experience is rarely enjoyable for the woman. The vagina of a virgin is a collapsed, closed, muscular tube with a tiny opening for the passage of menstrual blood. Entry of a fully erect penis for the first time, especially if forced or without enough arousal on the part of the woman is bound to be painful. Then there is the rupture of the hymen which is a delicate membrane partially covering the opening to the vagina. This causes bleeding as well as some pain as hymen does have sensory nerve endings. The powerful thrusting of the penis by the man who is usually very excited literally shakes the woman's whole body. Some men put their entire weight on the woman and squeeze her strongly especially as they are near orgasm. All this can make for a painful first experience for a woman.