answersLogoWhite

0

The rule of thumb that you should "be yourself" is generaly true. Women are looking for what kind of a person you are and whether you would be compatible with her. While you are being yourself, of course, you'll want to make sure to be an especialy friendly version of yourself.

However, this rule does not apply if you are a shy person. Women will be willing to date nice guys or jerks, smart guys or idiots, hot guys or ugly ones; they will not, however date a shy guy. Women are attracted to confidence. If you are naturaly shy, it is important to go into the date thinking that you are cooler than you really are; if you feel confident women will pick up on it.

User Avatar

Wiki User

13y ago

What else can I help you with?