Well, here is the way I did it:
Number 1. First ask your mom. Ex.Mom, can my best friend Marissa come stay the night? Well sometimes they will say no. DO NOT BEG!! that will TOTALLY RUIN EVERYTHING!!
Number 2. Let's say she says NO. Then all you have to do is say "You never let her/him sleep over any more!" Ex. Mom, you never let Marissa stay over any more!! Then just walk away.
Number 3. After you tell your mother that she never there,or whatever she will simply not respond. Then you have to start being really quiet (which is hard for some kids.) Now lets say your mom asks you nicely to make her a glass of ice soda. You simply reply with a sad yes,mam. She will say, call your friend and see what they're doing or if they have plans. Say thank you! And happily make her the soda.
THIS PLAN IS NOT BULLET PROOF!
Move out.
You can convince your mother by letting her know that you are responsible.
You don't! The reason you are being punished is probably because you did something wrong. I highly doubt that she will let you go out. Because letting you go out is like rewarding you. If you did something wrong then you have to accept your punishment! Don't be a brat or else you won't go out again! Instead try to convince your mom to let you have some of your friends over at your house.
I would tell my mom that, she can't say I'm not ready for something without letting me try it and see if I'm prepared for the new curfew.
Offer to help with something so that you can go (risk - her accepting your help but not letting you go), listen to your mom, and possibly call them (your friends) or have them come over
think of trades like if I take these of before 3 weeks I cant get my nails done for prom
You can convince your mother by doing chores and letting her know that you will be responsible for the hermit crab.
Tell her that you will be learning about the history of the cold war! and that the people in it are actually just robots.
Your mother is mad at you for a good reason and you know what that reason is so she is punishing you by not letting you go out and you are just going to have to deal with it. If you do not enjoy this sort of punishment then don't make your mom mad at you.
Ask her and see what she says. Offer to do housework.
It sounds like your mom is concerned about your safety. It may not be possible to convince her to go to the mall alone, but your best chance is to show your mom that you are responsible and alert to your surroundings. It may also depend on your age.
First, you have to get your other friends on there. If they already are, then you go on your moms account, add one of your friends on it, go on there profile, and she should say," look how many friends she or he has" and she should think about it.