ask another friend to find out and tell you, a good friend you know you can trust.
I can't tell you why your friend was talking behind your back but I can tell you that real friends don't talk behind their friend's back. You should let your friend know how you feel about this and that it is an act of betrayal.
When a person talks behind your friends back , just tell them , drop it . Don't talk bad about your friend while he|she is talking about that person it shows signs of disrespect & fake .
Tell her you're not interested in gossip.
they either tell you or you start hearing it from other people that they do not like you or your so called friend talks behind your back and treats you like your not even their usually they act rude and mean.(some people's attude is like this like me lol) They ignore you.
If your ex is interested in you he may be getting information from your friend to see how you feel about him and he may come back to you or, he may not want to come back into the relationship but is curious to see if you are dating. It is common for an ex to not want to continue a relationship, but they can get jealous if the partner they left behind starts dating again.
tell your friend how you feel about him she will understand
Talk to your friend about him, and see if he still talks about you, maybe hes hung up on you. Tell your friend you want him back, but your ok with them dating because you value your friendship. Then tell the guy, and if nothing happens move on.
well i have had a little experience with this well lets say that you are going somewhere really cool and your friend wants to go with you and he/she says that if you are not going then he/she will stay home that's when you can tell when he/she is using you. you can tell when a friend is talking about you behind your back is that when you see your friend whispering to a group of people and you ask them if he/she was talking behind your back and they say no and look away from your eyes or says no in a squeaky or high pitched voice or is shaky or very stiff or even looking guilty that's how you know
tell him never mind and probably tell the girls he talks to about you find someone else there is a lot of fish in the sea
If the friend is saying mean things or lying about you, talk to the friend in person, tell him or her how hurtful this gossip is to you and ask the friend to stop.
if he is always near you when she is near you and if he talks to her whenever
she smiles at him or blushes when he walks by or talks about him alot.