He could be in denial of there being any issues at all
You should carefully consider your relationship with your boyfriend. You need to determine what is good and what is bad in the relationship. If there is more bad than good, more negative issues than positive, perhaps you should consider removing him from your life. If there are more positive aspects in the relationship, you should perhaps discuss the negative issues with him to see if he is willing to work on the negatives.
If your boyfriend is being off and on with you, he could be suffering from stress issues or maybe he is just tired. Another reason why he is off and on with you may be because he is unsure of his relationship with you.
There could be a variety of reasons he's cheating. Asking him is the only way to find out. Don't stay in the relationship if this makes you uncomfortable.
If he put his friendship with this girl before your relationship with him, it means (unfortunately) that he gave the friendship more priority than his relationship with you---regardless if you had a legitimate reason to be upset or not. If you get back with him, expect the same issues to resurface.
Either he is right, or he is insecure about your relationship; in either case your relationship has some issues that neeed to be dealt with. Talk to him about them, possiblye with a realtionsip counsellor if neccessary.
yes. you should definitely tell him about that. Especially because he was his friend. there is a possibility for your boy friend to get hurt if his friend ( not purposely. but may be accidentally) tells him about u asking about the relationship issues. It will make the situation worst.
A relationship should already feel committed and secure before any marriage occurs. You should only marry someone if you have a complete feeling of security with them. If there is insecurity and problems in the relationship currently, getting married will not solve these issues. In fact, the problems will likely intensify. If you can't trust someone currently or don't feel they are committed to you, marrying them will not make you trust them any further or increase their committment.
Without knowing how long into your sexual relationship your boyfriend began having erection problems, it is a bit difficult to answer. It does sound like your boyfriend may have erectile dysfunction. There are many factors that can lead to ED, such as stress, anxiety, depression, or medical issues. Medical issues can include heart disease, diabetes, obesity, thyroid condition or low testosterone. Your boyfriend should see his doctor for a physical to see if his condition is medical or psychological in nature. If you have a good relationship, you may want to consult a sex therapist as well.
So it's your fault your boyfriend has to lie? Are you really going to fall for that? If you're boyfriend's lying, it's because he's choosing to. If you have jealousy issues, you can both deal with them, but if he has honesty issues, he needs to own them. Don't take the blame for his misdeeds.
be there for one another. if they are already in a committed relationship, then overcoming personal issues should be just a committment. especially if they love each other. they could be struggling inside emotionally and need help and who better than to turn to than the one you gave your heart to? and if they love the person with issues just as much then they will be there by their side to help them through their emotional struggle.I know because I am currently in a relationship and I struggle from personal issues from my past that are resurfacing and my boyfriend is there for me. why would he leave me to drown when he loves me? he has only been there to pull me back up. and when I ask myself if I would help him I would.communication is very important and so is listening.
From the description of this dream, it sounds as if the dreamer is allowing past actions or memories of the ex boyfriend to continue to cause pain. There are issues with this past relationship that need to be resolved so the dreamer can move on.