How would a 27-year-old divorcee with 3 kids ask her childless never-married 28-year-old boyfriend of 2 years to get a house together without coming off as pushy?

Answer 1

Well... I don't know why simply asking someone to get a house together would be pushy. I am guessing he is on the same wavelength as you are, or he wouldn't still be continuing the relationship. Obviously he gets along with you and your children well. My best advice is when you do ask him, don't be pushy, if he is unsure of his answer, give him some time to think about it. If he decides to get a place with you, great. If not, stick with him. He may just be worried about the situation. I'm sure he's thought of it himself, especially if you two have been in a relationship for two years. Bring up the idea casually, and make sure he knows that you think it's a good idea, go from there. It doesn't have to happen tomorrow. Hope this helps.