How you can arous your wife for intercrous?

Answer 1

Foreplay. Foreplay. And more foreplay. And I don't mean having her touch YOU. I mean you do nice things for her during the day BEFORE initiating sex. Tell her she looks great, hug and kiss her for no reason, rub her shoulders, back or feet. Don't expect every little token of affection to be returned with instant sex. Do these things to get her in the mood and warmed up. Men are like blow torches and women are like diesel engines. Men can turn it on and off like a switch. Women need to be warmed up over a period of time. If you don't cultivate this all day long and then just expect her to perform in bed, it's not going to happen. Be affectionate all day long and then when bedtime comes, take care of HER first. Use your fingers or mouth to get her ready and make sure she has an orgasm BEFORE starting to have sex. Many women cannot orgasm from sex alone so there is very little motivation to give it up if they aren't getting theirs at some point. And very few men are disciplined enough to take care of her afterwards, so make sure she gets hers before. By doing this, not only will you get sex on that night, but she's going to be more likely to want it more often if she knows it's going to be good for her too.