Make sure you slow down /pause at certain times to make sure that an orgasm doesn't immediately occur. The same situation applies when masturbating, some people want to make it last longer, so they masturbate for a while, slow down or pause if they are coming close to orgasm, then continue on when the oppurtunity for orgasm has passed.
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To be completely honest I don't think it matters what sex you are. But people usually say that females take longer.
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Try this. Before having sex masturbate then have sex like five minutes later. It should last longer.
No such thing. You can't have sex more than your body is capable. If you have a lot of sex, you start to take longer and longer to reach orgasm. If a guy is having a lot of sex and this isn't happening, it means he has a very high sex drive. There are some guys who are capable of having sex five, six times a day or more. The reason for this is that every time a man climaxes he releases ejaculate; this is how the species tries to reproduce. But his body - specifically his testicles - has to manufacture this, and to keep from running the testicles more than their maximum capacity, the body has a 'refractory period' where for a short period the man can't even stand any more stimulation of his penis, then he cannot even get an erection, then it will, as I stated above, take a longer time to reach orgasm. This refractory period could be 5 minutes when a guy hasn't had sex for a couple months, to an hour or more if he previously had sex the same day.
When a girl has vaginal sex, she is no longer a virgin.
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Usually. Sex is learned and when you first start you are usually so turned on leading up to the actual sex that it doesn't take a lot to climax. Anyone who brags about how long they lasted the first time is lying. While practice may not make perfect it should give you more control and a longer time.
do it slow and steady == Answer == Practice. Making an effort to control the process. A trick that has some affect. If you feel you are climaxing too fast, stop, and apply firm pressure to the underside base of your penis. This blocks the nerve impulses and can let you continue for a bit longer. Sex is a learned process and the more you do it, the longer you probably can. There are desensitizing cream that can be applied also.
it needs slow so as to wait longer It depends. Fast, intense, hot, vigorous sex can be better at certain times; when both partners want it that way. For most couples, however, slow sensual sex is usually much more pleasant and pleasurable, as the feelings last much longer and you get to hold and be with that person that much longer.
It comes with practice. As you get used to having sex, you will last longer and longer. Some methods are to think about work, golfing, sports, etc., during sex when you notice you are getting ready to have an orgasm. Also try using a product or equivalent such as "Numzit," a tooth pain relief medicine. Rub this on the head of your penis to temporarily deaden the nerve endings to prolong the time before orgasm. There are no lasting effects with this medication, and it is safe.
It all depends on how you condition your body. If you have sex every day for a month and then not for a week, your body will be expecting it and not be getting anything so you will become sexually frustrated. If you go without sex for a long time, such as several years, your body will not care about it as it is no longer a part of your life.