Surprise visit him and if he's doing the dirty, you'll catch him out!
Orrrrrrr.... Get one of your friends to call him and chat him up and see if he bites!
If you and he have been apart for a year and a half he is not your man, there he cannot be cheating. A separation that long would almost certainly he has found some other interest.
A long distance relationship is not realy a relationship that can be cheated on.
Cheating can tear apart a relation, as when the patner comes to know that you have been cheating he/she could be taken back Preston "Da Pickle" Peek: Thats not my answer but this is: cheating tears love apart because if your with a girl, and you cheat on her, she doesn't feel like shes yours. she feels like your already taken. she doesnt feel like shes THE ONLY one being loved. you don't want to cheat. its bad in both ways. -------------Preston "Da Pickle" Peek
I HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR A LONG TIME AND NOW HE WILL NOT ANSWER MY CALLS. IS HE CHEATING ON ME?
It can last a long time if you are both committed. I have been in a long distance relationship for 7 months
Tell her the truth. If you have been cheating, hiding it means keeping secrets, and for a relationship to last and work well you need to be open. If you haven't, you have to find out why your girlfriend thinks you're cheating, whether you did something that worried her or whether she lacks trust.
* Not necessarily. He may have been hurt while in a long distance relationship as they are risky and the percentage is high that one or the other may start seeing someone else. There is nothing like being 'up close and personal' in a relationship and distance makes that difficult. Don't second guess a man fro wanted to stay away from long distance relationships ... 'once bitten, twice shy.'
Depends if they've been hit yet...:-*
you ask her out
When you're in a Long Distance Relationship communication is pretty much all you have. So if the pair of you aren't communicating then there really isn't much of a relationship.
No. It's just another excuse on the cheater's part to make it look like it was beyond their control--their significant other wasn't their enough for them to resist temptation. This is bull. If two people have been in a committed relationship with eachother--regardless if they've had sex or not--it's cheating if one or both go outside of the relationship for affection or sex. Unless both people approve of having other partners as well.
Every couple runs the risk of one or both cheating on the other. Good communication skills are a must in a relationship. Sit down calmly with her and discuss how you feel, but do not accuse her of cheating. You may have trust issues because you have been hurt in the past by someone else. Talk things out with your girlfriend and be sure to let her know that cheating by either of you is not acceptable and it would ruin the relationship.
If you are both cheating on one another it would seem it is just not meant to be as you both obviously have been looking outside your relationship. Be friends for a time and see how things go.
Why do you think she will cheat? Cheating in a relationship is not automatic! Have you been hurt in the past? You both need to talk, to express your fears, to gain an understanding that can be based on trust.