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I have been under a lot of stress and my boy friend keeps telling me that my life is misrable and im making his life misrable so any argu is my fault cause im misrable should i break up with him?
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∙ 11y ago
From here it sounds like your bf doesnt like taking much of the blame in the relationship as he should. What you have to think is how long can you put up with this? and what will happen if it gets too much and the arguements turn violent.
Try and calmly sit down and try your best to talk to him try and get through that you love him but if all of this one way blame carries on then your going to have to call an end to it because relationships are meant to be happy its up to him to realize that he is just as much a part of this relationship as you. If you feel miserable all the time clearly you are not happy where you are and you may feel that illusion saying 'i cant leave him i love him too much' but what you have to take into account is yes you love him but you have to respect yourself too, make it clear what you are going to say and make sure you think and if he cannot accept what he hears then walk away because you cannot stay miserable forever it isn't fair on you or anyone around you. Good luck!
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thanx for the respond.
i have tried talking to him, but her never wants to talk about anything. we have had some trust issues in the past, he used to lie a lot, we almost got over it, until lately, one of his female friends who in front of him pretends that im one of her friends ignored me on facebook, so i asked him if he knew why and he got mad, so afer that i was everytime i tried not to talk about it but i did bring it up couple of times and he totally put me down and told me that i feel insecure about myself and that she s actually a goof friend and im basically tripping! and before he used to show that he cared for me but now he just doesnt, if im upset he doesnt even care to make me feel better. his carelessness got into me, and im doing my masters in structural engineerng and i just lost my job so i have been under a lot of pressure, and that is when he started calling me misrable and alla that. every little thing i say that might not be a happy thing or positive thing, he just called me a misrable person, he tells me i nag all the time which is so not true, i always keep ot to myself!
i do love him a lot, we have been together for almost 6 years and we live together which makes it hard to break up. i have tried breaking it up but he doesnt seem to take me serious, i don't know what to do! he pretends like things are ok after couple of days and like nothing ever happened and when i go to talk about it he strats yelling!
i just got to a point that i wasnt even sure if it is all my fault or not, so i needed a 3rd person's idea on it.
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∙ 11y ago
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