I love her but she doesn't love me?

Answer 1

I love my best friend I have known i have loved her for the last 2 months. Her family was really messed up ( Dad is a drunk) so I talked with her mom and I let her move into my place ( I live on my own) Well Things were going good then she got a boyfriend at her job now she is growing kind of old of him and talking to this really hot dude on myspace and it makes me want to cry cause i have done so much for this girl. I have helped her out so much I even bought her a 500.00 puppy to help cheer her up when things were going bad at her house. She Needs me so much I drive her to and from work I treat her like she is a goddess I do so much but like These other guys don't have to do much at all and she like appreciates that way more then what I do for her and I do so much more then those other guys. I ask her out before like 4 months ago ( she has been moved in for 2 1/2 weeks) and she said she doesnt want a relationship right now because how messed up things are over at her house so I know she knows I care for her alot and I treat her way better then just a friend would. She expects boyfriendish things from me because she has gotten use to me being such a good guy that it has made her expect that from me but that isn't fair to me because I love this girl but don't know how to tell her or let her know. She has had like 10 guys tell her they love her she talks about it all the time I don't want to sound like one of them but I cant get this girl out of my head. Here is the thing I am 17 Year old boy and she is turning 17 September 18th. I know were still young but I tried and I cannot move on from this girl! help me please what should I do should I sit down and tell her everything or just give up and stay her friend

def. tell her. don't live ur life wondering how she felt

dear friend, i was also in the situation like you... and i know how this situation is... just take her with you at the place she like very much and excites her a lot... and for 15 min take a walk with her and have a chat with she always try to have with you and which excites her.... then after 15 min, give her ignorance and make a sad expression on your face... naturally she will ask why your mood is turned off.... then tell her the whole story that you told us above.... if she has a small place in her heart for you, she will she will accept you...

This sounds stupid, but kiss her. Not suductively, or long or passionate. Just a light kiss on her lips. tell her you love her and you're glad she's your friend. leave it at that, she will come back to you. if not, leave. leave her, and it will hurt you like heck, but it will help her realize she loves you moer than anything.

Answer 2

I don't really understand your question.

listen to me im a girl so i undersand think about every little thing ie do u tell her u love her enough or listen to he llet me use an example when me and my boyfriend were on rockey grounds i though he never listend to me hed get me all these rely expencive presants but that just made it worse till one day we went for a walk he gave what i thought was another one but when i open it it was a beautiful little china horse nothing expencive but he actually listend when i told him the story about windsong the little ordiment was made to be an exact replica weve been together for 6 years so ask her about her feelings and intss youl gt through this

Answer 3

Don’t think that she doesn’t want you but don’t get your hopes up either. Take it from me, I’m a girl.

Answer 4

Well, there's not much you can do about that.. You can only wait. Become good friends and then you'll see.

Answer 5

I'll answer your question with another question.

Why is it she can't be with you? Find out why and find a way to change that.

Answer 6

it is love