Sounds like you are not keeping your tongue swelling in check, if your tongue is swelling you need to get on some ice and motor down to your local body piercer and ask about a longer barbell. You should be following the written aftercare instructions you were given, these would detail how to handle swelling and aftercare. For now get some ice on your tongue and then deal with the other points I have made here.
Yeah. Some tongue ring balls are pretty big and may look tacky on lip rings.
There will be a shiny ball in your feces.
No, its not. Go see your piercer.
I guess you are going shopping for a new plastic ball, no harm done. Unless you still have your appendix then you may get it back some time in the future.
A small piece of eraser works pretty well until you can get a ball.
you unscrew the top ball and then pull the barbell out through the bottom
To change a tongue ring, start by washing your hands with soap and water. Gently unscrew the ball at the bottom of the current tongue ring using clean hands or latex gloves. Slide out the old tongue ring and carefully insert the new one, then screw the ball back on tightly.
The answer is No.
it doesnt matter
14 g
I have had my tongue ring for almost 10 years, and I have a small hard spot close to the tongue ring. I think it is just the tongues version of scar tissue. It hardens up to protect itself from the tongue ring being there. And I even have a round indention on the top of my tongue from the ball pushing down for so long. Hope this helps you!
You better take it out and do some research about what is going on.