I think the best way to get a handle on the real situation is to go the main source...your husband. Obviously if she has the phone number and she is indeed calling...then she knows your husband.
There isn't much you can do while in a Dentention Center. Why blame your coworker when your husband has a mouth and could have said 'no!' It's best to move forward in your life and leave both of them behind. Start a new life.
The way that a wife could cope with it is 1.talking to the husband 2.calling someone in front of your husband sweetie 3.talk to a therapist 4.find out who he called sweetie and we he called her sweetie. and 5.beat the crap out of him with a golf club or any blunt object.
Not necessarily true, but possible. It could be that he was hiding the relationship from you because he thought you would be angry. Have an open discussion with your husband and express how you feel, but keep your cool at the same time. If it bothers you that he's hiding their friendship, let him know how it makes you feel. Ask him how he feels about their friendship and why he never brought her up before?
If it is yes most definately.
Don't involve other people into this matter. First and foremost, you need to sit down and talk with your husband. You are right- a female coworker calling your husband for something other than business, especially in the middle of the night, especially drunk, is certainly not alright. You don't have to be accusing, but you do need to make it clear to him how you feel about it. He is the one she is calling. He needs to be the one to tell her to stop.
Another question must be asked. Why is he calling her? To discuss work or something else? Work, no. Something else,yes. It could mean cheating. But it could mean that he somehow knew that you feel uneasy about her. and didnt want you make you worry if you might see it.
Egg Salad Smoothie
The cast of Over the Hill - 2013 includes: David Alan Graf as Husband Shanna Choung as Coworker Heidi Lux as Lori Josh Roig as Coworker Suzanne Simnick as Susan Marcus Valerio as Coworker
because love is the key to friendship and friendship make lifetime romance
Probably not. -MJB
you keep on calling him.
Everyday!