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I am in this situation, only im the girl wo has just been told by her boyfriend of 3 years that he isn't ready for a relationship, wen i thought we were set.

Dont be cruel, if you can help it. Dont say you arent in love with her, you are in a relationship with her that at the moment is based on lies, you may have fallen out of love with her, but don't tell her that, its crippling - trust me.

Tell her that you feel like things arent going in a direction that you are happy with and that you need some space to get your head togeter and that she should do the same. Use the time to really evaluate things. If you saw her with another guy how would you feel? Are you ready to not have her in your life? If you wade in and tell her you don't love her you WILL lose her, and you cant undo it.

If after you've had some space you decide you are ready to leave the relationship, do it then, tell her that you used the time apart to think about your life and you realise that you need to make changes and that you cant do that whilst your ina relationship. Be fair and be kind.

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