If you hate your father because he really bothers you what will you do?

Answer 1

* Hate is a very strong word. If your father does not constantly verbally attack you or physically attack you in any way and only asks that you abide by the rules of the home then there needs to be an adjustment on your part. Parents put a roof over their children's heads; feed them; make sure they have good medical care; have them educated and give them love, but set standard rules of: doing your homework and getting decent grades; telling you who you can have as friends and what friends are a bad influence on you; warning you about sexually transmitted diseases; drugs (alcohol included); to punish you when you are disrespectful (cheeky) towards parents; asking you to do chores around the home does not constitute any father to be labeled as a poor father, but a father that loves and cares for his child or children. Did it ever occur to you that you bother your father? Instead of fighting with your father try sitting down with your father and express how you feel. Especially teens are between boy and man or girl and woman and these are tough years because the teen feels they are mature enough to handle themselves when their parents, from their own wisdom know they are not. Remember, your father was young once too and his father probably had many rules for him to follow. Give your father a chance and ask him to tell you stories about when he was growing up and you just might see there are some similar feelings between you and your father. Be mature enough to try it.