My teenage son has began wearing girls clothing everyday what should you do?

Answer 1

I just wanted to add that it began on Halloween when I dressed him up in one of my outfits. I thought it would be fun for him to dress like a woman instead of his own age. So I told him to shave his legs and I applied full makeup; eye shadow, liner, foundation, lipstick the whole thing and put a wig I had on him. Then gave him a matching pair of my silky sheer panties, with a bra, a matching half slip and a garter belt and stockings and we went and bought some high heels for him. I wanted him to really feel like a woman. After he got dressed I had him put on a nice chiffon dress I had from a party and he looked great. He was a bit flushed and I asked if he was ok and he said yes but acted odd. After the party he sat around in the outfit for a couple more hours and then went up to bed. He asked if he could wear one of my nightgowns to just feel want a woman feels like going to bed. So again I gave him a really silky frilly one with a matching robe. He got up the next day and wore it around all morning and that began this all. Since then he has wanted to dress like a girl everyday after school and on weekends. Now he wants to dress everyday even going to school.

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Just let him for everything but school. Treat him exactly like a girl. Include rules for when he's dressed that he's a girl he'll have to behave as one and give him 'girls' chores to do. eventually if its just a game he'll get tired of all the work and/or get bored and go back to being a boy. and if he doesn't well then you both will already be well on the way to getting used to a mother/daughter relationship. But above all it is important that you make him feel safe to be him/herself around you. if he has something to say you want him to come to you and say it not bottle it inside. it leads to massive depression and ...just no one should be afraid to be themselves especially around their parents.

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You said after he was dressed he acted odd-what does that mean? Do you mean he was aroused by dressing as a female? And why were you so intent in having him wear extra (really) silky lingerie and nightgown? YOu wanted him to feel like a female completely; why? Did you think he wold act like this after changing into a female. It is alarming for a teenage boy to wear womens lingerie and clothing (chiffon dress) and shave his legs and get make up and change from looking like a boy to feeling different and not even looking like himself. No doubt the silky lingirie was arousing tohim of curse it would be it is what girls wear and what he wants a girl so now he is the girl. And now he is addicted..my mother did the same thing to me. It is erotic and arosuing to wear silky panties, a slip, stockings and a bra and then high heels and a dress and put on makeup to lookl Ike a woman how did you think we as young boys would feel. To yo woman it is Norman for us it is the ultimate high all of a sudden feeling the sensation of silky lingerie is overwelming and unbelieavabley sexy.

Answer 2

teen boy? if they are pants, its completely fine, almost 1/3 of boys from age 12-20 wear girls pants. Anything else, talk to them about it if you feel they will be ok about it. If you are questioning they're sexuality just wait to see if they grow more attracted to any friends they have over. They may even confront you about it. unless you are sure they are bi/homosexual, don't rush to talking about it.

Answer 3

This question implies ANOTHER question. Why do you NEED to *control* a son? Is this a matter of preventing them from wearing the clothes, or are they truly out of control, burning down houses and getting into fights? To me, people only need to be "controlled" when they are harming others and themselves.

If it is simply that you do not wish your son wearing girl's clothes (cross-dressing), then you will probably not have a lot of luck. If your son is only going through a phase then it does not matter, he will naturally stop. If the urge to cross-dress comes from deeper, then forcing him to stop will not remove this urge. Suppressing it could potentially become harmful - who needs more repressed anxieties? Turning something like this into a "big issue" may even strengthen the urge by giving the subject taboo status, along with an extra dose of guilt.

If, however, you are worried that by wearing girl's clothes your son IS potentially doing himself harm, it is best to be honest with your concerns. Suggest he see a counselor. This could be a professional, a GP or family doctor, or even an open-minded and trusted religious figure. Ultimately, your son is going to have to choose for himself how he lives his life. It may be hard to understand, but try to be supportive.

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Answer 4

I would encourage him to be " GIRLY " and treat him like a daughter.

Answer 5

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