If your ex-girlfriend says you are more into the relationship and she feels guilty how do you make her not feel guilty to get her back?
You don't - can't control people, why would you want to be with
someone who lies about feeling guilty?... "I feel guilty..." may as
well say "I am not interested" or more directly "go away".
Although, there are two ways that people in your condition
occasionally get back together. Both are very difficult. Your girl
friend has told you that she feels that you love her but she does
not love you. This creates pressure on her to act more affectionate
than she wants to at this time, so she has left the relationship.
One thing you can do is realize that she is not in love with you
and attempt to start a new relationship with her based in friendly
companionship, one in which you do not talk about the future, but
merely enjoy the present moments together. In time she may find
that you are the person that she wants to be with. But you may have
to wait a very long time for that to happen, or it may never
happen. The second way that a relationship like this occasionally
is brought back together is by someone like yourself realistically
looking to see what it is that stood in the way of this woman
loving you, make changes to yourself and your life, and then
waiting three months, six months or longer before attempting to
contact her again. In the unlikely event that she has not had a
satisfying relationship since leaving you, and seeing the changes
you have made in yourself, she may reconsider.