I love this woman very much. We were best of friends for three years before we got together. Once we got together we moved in with eachother. We got engaged three years after that. We had a wedding planned for July of 05' but called the wedding off in March because of problems. We kept trying to make it work. I kept drinking and she finally left me. I have quit drinking and am working on my control issues with a thrapist. I am still totally in love with this woman and would like to have a family with her. Right now she tells me she does not know if we have a fututre together. She is living her life, happy and free right now. She is not even really broke up about the situation. I am devastatede and am doing everything I can to better myself, to become happy and true to myself. I still would like to have a chance with this woman. Six months from now, if I have not had a drink, and am working on my issues, shouldn't I have a chance to try and make it work at least one more time. What do you think, and what are my chances. She says she loves me as a friend, but she doesn't love the person I was.
You should mind your own business.
Narcissists are all about me, me, me. If you don't feel free to be yourself, if you feel that your fiance is controlling you, bail out. Chances are good you hit the jackpot.
YES
You can't change someone's feelings...
There is a chance, seeing as it is in his genes/blood, but probably not a big chance though.
If your fiance is controlling and possessive, even if he says that in future he will never lay a finger on you, it is important to know many abusive relationships begin with controlling behaviors.
Because he's a toe rag.
No. That is her fiance, because of their relationship he can not be her legal guardian.
It sounds like you're the ping-pong ball, being tossed from one side of the table to the other. First, your parents. Now, your ex-fiance. What's missing from your question is: What do you want? How do you feel about it? If you're old enough to marry, you're old enough to stop being manipulated by anyone. You must ask yourself the very difficult questions, like: Am I ready to jump from my parents to a marriage? Will I be missing things that I really want to experience by becoming engaged again? Do I want to be with my fiance because it's a way out of my parent's control? Only you can answer those questions. Your private answers will give you the motivation to do what you need to do. But I have a feeling that this situation will eventually become another Wiki question: "How do I get out of a marriage that I got into because of my manipulative, controlling fiance?" I'm afraid no one will be able to answer that question when it comes up.
If the spouse really loves the person that cheated then they should give a 2nd chance to other. But if they cheat again then that's when you pull out the "sharp stuff"
that means the girl of fiance
How does a none immigrant fiance apply for a none immgrant fiance?