Epilepsi is very different for different people so it all depends on how severe hers is and how the medicine affect her and if she takes it as she should. She should speak to her doctor and lawyer.
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You have the right to file for a change of custody with the court. You will have to present convincing evidence that the child's mother is unfit to retain custody of the child. Frankly: It is a stiff burden of proof to overcome to convince the court to remove a child from its mother's custody.
Even though the mother is underage she still has custody of her child as long as she does not do something to get custody taken away from her
lost the child to whom?
When married you have equal rights to the child.
How often is the father awarded custody of the child over the mother in North Carolina?
the father gets the custody of the child if the mother dies
You have to get a lawyer and file for custody. There are some agencies that can provide free legal counsel, contact your local child protection service.
The mother. If she dies, her parents get custody.
Mother or Father, but most states won't let anyone leave once divorce proceedings started until custody determined and then the custodial may do it if they have 100%.
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No. If the child's' mother calls the police you could loss custody of your child and possible go to jail. If I was you I would contact a lawyer who specializes in child custody cases. If you can get a notarized letter from the mother saying it is okay and giving you full custody.