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"What are you doing?" said Mum.
"Mum's the word" means don't discuss what you are doing with anyone.
Ma mum dead!
Ray William Johnson
The cast of 9-1-Mum - 2009 includes: Marya Delver as Dana
your MUM is the answer
doing my mum in bed
ya mum
By doing as you are asked and told.
No answers please. Clues only.
I think you need to stop this habit and whatever they are doing to make you feel this way talk to themabout it.
The temptation to write 'your mum' is so great.