Is it a common trait for a narcissist to be money hungry?

Answer 1

Oh yes ! My ex N is a con man and is now with a very unattractive, overweight woman who supports him financially. I discovered my N was stealing money from me. He was very preoccupied with my money and liked to tell me how I should spend it. He would caution me against any large purchases or frivolous items. He seemed very frugal himself, but I discovered later he was saving money to buy drugs (my money AND his). What a shock to discover all this after I had already kicked him out! Suddenly all the missing money made sense. Small amounts disappeared over a large period of time. He was very selfish and never bought gifts at Christmas or Birthdays, even though he accepted some nice things from me. He was only employed part-time. HIS money was precious. Mine was easily dispensed with, as long as HE needed it. He always had an excuse. He only lasted about 11 months with me. Is this an N trait? Well, spending likely makes them feel powerful and that may be considered narcissistic supply. I suppose it could be anything, but why not money? Money is a source of supply 'and' used to attract other sources of supply. My N was VERY good with money. The MANY women he attracted loved being seduced by a man who was well off. He bought lavish dinners, homes, etc.. It was the perfect luring device. -AlwaysLearning Yes but they often lie about how much they make. They often like others to think they have money but often they can barely pay rent. I have noticed that alot of N's I met have had a secret drug addiction. They hide it well.

Answer 2

Yes, it is common for narcissists to be money hungry because they often prioritize their own needs and desires above others'. They may value material possessions and financial success as a way to enhance their self-image and maintain a sense of superiority over others.