Is it ok for a married man to have another woman as a friend and tell her he loves her?
It is okay as long as it is clearly understood by everybody (especially their spouses) that they are just friends; and there is no romantic or sexual interest between them.
Answer 2: HEADING FOR DISASTER!!!See this for what is is, it's not acceptable being too familiar and too friendly so as to tell another woman that is not his wife he loves her. When a man does this his heart is already divided. All you need now is the right circumstance and adultery will take place. Friendships will always keep respectful boundaries and not like this. Telling another woman you love her may not be physical infidelity but it certainly is emotional infidelity - and can easily lead to even worse.