It depends on the individual guy. I detest the word 'dump' as it sounds like the person was treated like so much garbage. To tell you the truth I hope he tells you to take a flying leap and that you will learn to be more respectful of your relationships. There is a word called 'communication' and in order not to hurt others it would have been wise of you to communicate your feelings and told him you weren't ready to commit and break up rather than dump him! Yes, he could give you another chance, but put yourself in his shoes and don't do it to him again!
you sit there and think this person has caused me all this pain do i even want him back?
For heaven's sake! Why would you want to be with someone who obviously doesn't want to be with you? Dumped is dumped. Crawling after and hoping to be picked back up is degrading. Find a different girl.
If its because she dumped you, you should give her some time then ask her if you could get back together if you dumped her say you are sorry & you want her back & give her flowers If you did something to her & then she dumped yousend her some roses & find her to say sorry for whatever you did then just hope she accepts.
If you dumped him just tell him you weren't thinking clearly when you did that and didnt think about how much you really cared for him. If he dumped you then the only thing to do is tell him plain and clear you want him back but then after that it's his decision if he wants to get back with you or not. (:
Ther is never much point in stewing over old relationships. if he dumped you what do you want him back for. that is would you want some one just like him again. Forget about him and get on with your life.
You don't want to get hurt again if he/she dump you and y would you want to hurt him/her again(if you dumped them) just saying!
it depends what the text is about. if she wants to get back together and so do you, then tell her you want to get back together. if you dont want to get with her, tell her that right now you just want to be friends.
if he dumped uu and is saying he dont want to go out with uu again then he probly dont want to go out with uu again if uu dumped him them 1st yy did uu dump him if uu still like him 2nd he probly dont feel comftorble goin out with sum1 wot dumped him .
you just dont tell him. chances are that if he dumped you once already, he wont get back together with you. just leave it alone. if you want to take that chance then you can ask him to go out for a date but be prepared incase he dumps you again.
I think..He probably does want her back.Didn't they get engaged?In real life?
You forget about him and move on. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and there is a boy out there who will value and cherish you. The one who "dumped" you is obviously not the one for you.
Someone who dumps another person could actually realize they miss them and really want to get back with them, but more than likely they just want to keep tabs on the other person they dumped. They really don't want to commit to this person and want to have the freedom to do what they want (that includes dating) but can't handle it if the person dumped is dating also. They often want a "back-up" when they get lonely between dating. Kick this person to the curb! Good luck Marcy