Is it wrong for a stay at home mom to want a couple hours every week to go do something alone when the dad works all the time?

Answer 1

It is not wrong to want a couple of hours a week to yourself. If the dad works all the time and you take care of the children all the time, it sounds to me that a third person is needed, perhaps some friendly aunt or other relative, who will look after the children for a few hours. Take the children over for a visit. It can be fun to be visited by children. People often enjoy seeing their relatives. So everybody wins.